The Original Poster's problem is that he makes attempts to befriend Roaches and Rats in an on going effort to get laid as much as possible. This is his number one problem. The Roachies dictate to him the terms of this friendship that is the number two problem. That is a disaster in the works. Guys become so desperate to be accepted that they will compromise whatever little common sense they have, just to get laid. Lets be real here, if not for the sexual attraction to the flea-bag Roach broads and Hood-Rats what purpose do you have to talk to them? You want to get laid, they want to get paid. So like the other guy said, dont tell them where you live, dont even tell them your real name. Get a dual Sim card phone and use them solely for a Cabana Bonanza.
If you re going to pay for your friendship put a business model to it and ask yourself "Am I getting any value in this relationship? Are my transaction fees to high? Is this distribution network prohibitive in the long term?"
I have to disagree.
I remember the announcement of the nupitals complete with pictures of the blushing sow and all the exclaimation from this Guy about how "see? there not all cueros" and how his beloved Miss Piggy was the "light of his life and his bestest friend and blah blah blah" and that is when I was convinced that the whole conversation just needed a little time to develop into the nightmare that he ended up living through. The saddest part of it is that he still BLAMES HER...
How lost in the sauce does one have to be to believe that someone with whom they have absolutely nothing in common would pick them out of millions of their own countrymen with whom they share culture, language, history, art, music, food appreciation, etc. etc? Let's face it, if you were funny looking, lacking a personality and totally devoid of common sense wherever you came from then what could possibly turn any of that around in a foreign land where you have even less to offer from a non-material standpoint. More importantly, how lost and lonely can a Man be to mistake the attention of someone who is clearly on the hustle for some form of "love"? One would have to start out with no clue as to what love is, where it comes from and what it feels like and that is sad.
Sadder, still is the fact that after 3 Months in a Dominican jail for the crime of gross stupidity, it still wasn't enough time to think through the situation and realize his own culpability. You know the old saying "You can't cheat an honest Man"? I believe it. She greased him up, making him believe that she thought he was handsome, charming and attractive, which he KNEW he wasn't. She gave him a new identity and he liked it. What he didn't realize is that every illusion has only a temporary effect, at the end of which all will appear exactly as it is. How can he be angry or disappointed in her? Imagine what she had to go through, being separated from the real love of her life while pumping up this fat foreigner with no appeal, allowing him to defile her simply to afford access to the financial means to just get by, which came so easily to him. How does he get to deserve the financial means which aren't available to so many far more capable and deserving Men?
She came to him as an "Angel". Be careful what you ask for because she served as the Avenging Angel of Death to any Gringo who really believes that his money is powerful enough to buy him respect, love or a soul. So what did he learn? Nothing! He comes back on here professing his preference for Latinas, mumbling something about San Diego and Mexico and I laughed until my sides hurt thinking what this Guy really has a preference for is swimming out of his depth, getting his butt kicked and blaming others for his mistakes and if he thought they were rude to him in the D.R. just wait until they get a load of this Guy in Mexico where Gringo is always on the menu.