When I got divorced in 1999 the lady fought it, so i looked up on the internet to find if there was anyplace one could go to get a divorce without her involved. Years ago it was said one could get a quicky divorce in Mexico. But it didn't seem possible, but I sent the lady (we'd been apart for awhile) an email with a link to a page in Thai (or whatever they call the language in Thailand) and assured her that it said that for $40.00 I could divorce her by email. And she could be the first lady in her office to have been divorced in Thailand! Soon afterwards I filed for divorce in Ft Lauderdale FL. That was the messiest divorce I had been in. The judge was Julie Huckthuson. And the lady being divorced started calling her Judge Judy!