You know what do what you feel is right. I just have a couple of questions. How long have you known her and did you meet her at a hotel and what about her family. To find out if she is truly sincere and to find aobu the real her you need to go and spend time with HER in her life, where she lives and not just see her at the hotel if that is where she works. I have a friend that did that. She spent many months in DR with her man and he ended up being the one. And they are very happy. Just do what you feel is right, and don't let some of the negative comments of the other bother you. Good Luck.