I am currently living with a Dominican girl here in Toronto. I have read some of your prior posts on how Dominican women cannot live independantly.
Here are my observations and questions. The girl I live with calls here family every week, or sometimes even more. Luckly, she uses prepaid calling cards.
Now here father lives somewhere in the US, and for some reason is always sick. Now he is about to have an operation and she spent the last few nights calling him. However, no she cannot get a hold of him in his hospital room. Therefore, she calls all of her other family to see if they know about his condition. Strange, no one in this family spent 1 peso to call her for Christmas, and they never call the father. Now my question is how come she just does not call the hosptial direct and ask why he is not in his room?
Furthermore, she thinks that if she calls the doctor, he will give her a letter so that she can get a visa to visit him in the hospital in the US. Now if I was a doctor, I would never give such a letter to someone I dont know personally.
Now from what I have noticed, the Dominican women that I have met, cannot fuction independantly. I am sure not all, but like I said the ones that I have met.
Now my other question is, how do they hope to survive in a different country? Knowing very well that they do not have the family support system, which to me is very shaky.
I have lived in the past with Mexican and Venezuelan women, they seem to be able to function better independantly.
Can you explain? If you need more information if I am not clear let me know, hopefully you understand what I am asking.
I am asking soley to try to understand the Dominican psyche.
Here are my observations and questions. The girl I live with calls here family every week, or sometimes even more. Luckly, she uses prepaid calling cards.
Now here father lives somewhere in the US, and for some reason is always sick. Now he is about to have an operation and she spent the last few nights calling him. However, no she cannot get a hold of him in his hospital room. Therefore, she calls all of her other family to see if they know about his condition. Strange, no one in this family spent 1 peso to call her for Christmas, and they never call the father. Now my question is how come she just does not call the hosptial direct and ask why he is not in his room?
Furthermore, she thinks that if she calls the doctor, he will give her a letter so that she can get a visa to visit him in the hospital in the US. Now if I was a doctor, I would never give such a letter to someone I dont know personally.
Now from what I have noticed, the Dominican women that I have met, cannot fuction independantly. I am sure not all, but like I said the ones that I have met.
Now my other question is, how do they hope to survive in a different country? Knowing very well that they do not have the family support system, which to me is very shaky.
I have lived in the past with Mexican and Venezuelan women, they seem to be able to function better independantly.
Can you explain? If you need more information if I am not clear let me know, hopefully you understand what I am asking.
I am asking soley to try to understand the Dominican psyche.