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Then his other novia in Canada is paying for you.
These guys are pretty slick, watch she arrives on your plane as you leave.
Hire a PI, or surprise him a week earlier than expected next time.
These guys are pretty slick, watch she arrives on your plane as you leave.
Hire a PI, or surprise him a week earlier than expected next time.
So regardless of the guy taking me around where hes from meeting his family. Paying for a sick note just to spend time with me doesn't mean anything? I'm trying to figure this out I know how these guys can be. But I'm also trying to be one step ahead.
I read of some stories that seem to work out with these guys. But at the same time I'm not oblivious to things.
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I read of some stories that seem to work out with these guys. But at the same time I'm not oblivious to things.
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Simple question, HOW and WHERE did you meet him..
If he WORKED at the ALL Inclusive where you stayed . Like as the Dance Instructor . forget it ... and move on..
But If like he has a Good Job and you met by chance at like the MALL or a Restaurant , ..then it may be a GO....
If he WORKED at the ALL Inclusive where you stayed . Like as the Dance Instructor . forget it ... and move on..
But If like he has a Good Job and you met by chance at like the MALL or a Restaurant , ..then it may be a GO....
Chances are he is a sanky. If he has lots of money and works at a resort, he's not getting it from PG sources. Often times, infidelity is culturally acceptable due to poverty & a different world view. Don't think you're a step ahead- because if you need to be, then you definitely aren't. Listen to Tamborista, read Matilda's blog on sankies.
If you listen to these people then everybody in the country is bad and the only decent people are foreigners. My advice to you is to see what happens when the money request does happen and it will. Keep your wallet closed and you will see what kind of man you have.
Is there an Echo in here ? Let her go at her own pace and answer..
First you say " these people" like we are clueless, even though Most here are Married to Dominicans or have DECADES of experience traveling there , or both , and then you ask the same exact question we just asked her...
There's a fine line between having reasonable money for what they do for a living and having enough money to wine and dine you which would be impossible.
He doesn't make enough in a week to pay for one night out with your for a nice dinner and drinks. If you want to go out and about foreigner style he can't afford it and you will ahve to pay. But if he takes you out dominican style and pays that would be reasonable.
If you are even wondering I think you have a feeling and always trust your little voice! Its telling you there's reason to be wary
He is a Sankie , 100% and you are not his First ...
But do what you heart tells you if you need to , but follow the rule you just outlined. and he WILL ask for money , someone WILL get sick, and he will need $.
These males seek out jobs at resorts for a REASON.. to meet women like you.. They know who to target and how to play your Heart ... Deep down you know this ...
Surprise him by just showing up . See how that goes . If you tell him when you are coming he will just Pencil you into his Calendar ... he has MANY..
Do you SKYPE with him EVERY night ? If it were REAL that is what you would be doing , every single night after work .
as Others have said read Matilda's Blog ..
Lots of women have been through this ..
But do what you heart tells you if you need to , but follow the rule you just outlined. and he WILL ask for money , someone WILL get sick, and he will need $.
These males seek out jobs at resorts for a REASON.. to meet women like you.. They know who to target and how to play your Heart ... Deep down you know this ...
Surprise him by just showing up . See how that goes . If you tell him when you are coming he will just Pencil you into his Calendar ... he has MANY..
Do you SKYPE with him EVERY night ? If it were REAL that is what you would be doing , every single night after work .
as Others have said read Matilda's Blog ..
Lots of women have been through this ..
Suggest you check him out on this FB page - all about sankies https://www.facebook.com/groups/Dom...745649976431¬if_t=group_activity&ref=notif
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Rose, Some of these guys play the short game, and some play the long game. You've already told him if he asks for money that's the end, so he's in long game mode.
You're not telling us much. How much time do you spend with him? Where are you living?
Employees in hotels make very low wages. If you end up having some sort of relationship with him, either you'll be footing bills to go out, or you'll become the 'stress reliever" for him and he'll go back to hanging out with his friends or the other women who do send him money while you sit at home and wonder what you did wrong..
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