i ripped this article from askmen.com..
they should mail this out to every man on earth!
10. You listen
When words come out of her mouth, do you actually pay attention to what she is saying or do you mumble agreement while tuning her out? A good boyfriend is an active listener, meaning he asks questions and doesn't just wait for his turn to speak.
Showing her that you have a genuine interest in what she has to say means you respect her opinions and find her interesting -- two things that will please any woman.
9. You're spontaneous
A great relationship is one that never feels stale. So be unpredictable and mysterious in order to keep her guessing (and on her toes).
Whether you whisk her away to a Mexican resort at the last minute or show up on her doorstep, for no apparent reason, with Chinese takeout, always try to add some real excitement to the romance. Women love to be surprised, to be swept away in as many different ways as possible. It's up to you to come up with the ideas.
8. You satisfy her bedroom desires
Saying sex is important would be a gross understatement. A good boyfriend must satisfy his woman's every romantic need (and, yes, she should reciprocate). Remember that there's a difference between making love just for the sake of it, and being passionate about it. That means never skipping foreplay , being considerate about her needs and not tuning her out afterward.
7. You're self-confident
No woman wants a passive, submissive man who compromises his personality to make her happy. Retain your personality, stand by your opinions, and don't give in too easily. Show her that you are strong and confident.
6. You notice the small stuff
Did she suddenly get highlights in her hair, shed a few pounds, or buy a new dress? Pay her a compliment. Show her that you are attentive and don't miss life's more subtle details.
they should mail this out to every man on earth!
10. You listen
When words come out of her mouth, do you actually pay attention to what she is saying or do you mumble agreement while tuning her out? A good boyfriend is an active listener, meaning he asks questions and doesn't just wait for his turn to speak.
Showing her that you have a genuine interest in what she has to say means you respect her opinions and find her interesting -- two things that will please any woman.
9. You're spontaneous
A great relationship is one that never feels stale. So be unpredictable and mysterious in order to keep her guessing (and on her toes).
Whether you whisk her away to a Mexican resort at the last minute or show up on her doorstep, for no apparent reason, with Chinese takeout, always try to add some real excitement to the romance. Women love to be surprised, to be swept away in as many different ways as possible. It's up to you to come up with the ideas.
8. You satisfy her bedroom desires
Saying sex is important would be a gross understatement. A good boyfriend must satisfy his woman's every romantic need (and, yes, she should reciprocate). Remember that there's a difference between making love just for the sake of it, and being passionate about it. That means never skipping foreplay , being considerate about her needs and not tuning her out afterward.
7. You're self-confident
No woman wants a passive, submissive man who compromises his personality to make her happy. Retain your personality, stand by your opinions, and don't give in too easily. Show her that you are strong and confident.
6. You notice the small stuff
Did she suddenly get highlights in her hair, shed a few pounds, or buy a new dress? Pay her a compliment. Show her that you are attentive and don't miss life's more subtle details.