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brasi

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met a girl...

...two years ago at the Coral Costa Caribe in Jaun Dolio...nothing happened...but she was a waitress at the casino, and man, I remember her, hard to forget her. Stunning.

After a couple nights of glancing at her and getting caught I told her she was beatiful in my crappy Spanish and she got excited...she couldn't speak English but over the 10 days I was there she would come over when I was gambling and smile, flirt a little (she was sort of shy) etc.

I didn't know how to, or whether or not it was a good idea to ask her out. I didn't. I have never forgotten her though. After reading the posts on this thread I see I may have avoided disaster.
Like I said, nothing happened...but maybe what I thought was a mutual attraction was something else??
 

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Most of the girls working in the casinos are "Available"

You have to be at least a "little" discreat,and arrange to meet them away from the Hotel/Casino area.If she likes the way you look,or if she is after your money,or both!,she will meet you! Don't be shy down here! The girls expect the man to be very aggresive!They want to be told what to do!They think you are gay if you don't go after sex right away! CCCCCCCCCCCCCCCC
 

Ken

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There is no comparison between brasi's post and those of the women you are defending. brasi was attracted to the girl, but went home and continued with his life. Conversely, most women who right are practically throwing themselves at some animacion guy or tour guide they met on a previous trip.

Women who post something similar to that of brasi invariably get a supportive, postive response.
 

MommC

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Ken said it........

and many women who do write get a response that tries to be positive with the negative news........
 

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You could have had some fun

Brasi,
I am generalizing but many women that work at AI resorts and show interest are available. I am not saying she wanted to supplement her income but it is a reality. Any woman I have met in previous trips, waitresses, at clubs, etc all of them, except for one I am seeing now, gave it up by 2nd time of being around them. In the morning they loved me, etc, etc, yeah right. Or some mentioned that they needed money for some reason. Some were obvious semi-pros and others were normal girls who I was attracted too and maybe they were really attracted to me who thought I could be a chance to come back to the US. What I am saying is if you see a woman you like, she reciprocates, go for it. You are on vacation by god, go for the gold. Don't be timid and not experience good Dominican loving, it is the best. Don't do like me, lead one of them on to get what you want, knock her up, and then because I love my son, have decided to step up to the plate and bring them to the US. Have fun and keep it wrapped, you should have went for the woman, doesn't mean you had to have a relationship with her and would probably have had the best sweating in the sheets you could have imagined.
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brasi

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thanks, and a final note

OK, well I don't view women like a strip mine...going for the gold to me would be meeting a really nice AND beautiful woman...

I was more wondering if its possible to have a real relationship with a woman from the DR in a traditional US way (dating, etc). Maybe my white skin and the obvious rift in culture is too much for that.

Sex is great and all---but people, damn!!

I think most of the males on this board are pretty one-dimensional...I'm no saint but I would tell my sister and girlfriends to stay the hell away from you. haha.

I like the DR and hope to travel there again...maybe I should leave the hopes for romance home though.
 

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I'm still not sure what it is you are looking for from this forum but I do suggest you get out of the AI and casinos and meet other Dominicans in the area.

Not clear what you mean by saying " the traditional US way (dating ect)." I'm almost certain that Dominicans date, ;) and do what people on other planets do.

By the way I forgot to add. Welcome to DR1 :cool:
 
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dale7

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Brasi

I was just laying out frank reality around tourist areas. If you want to meet a very nice girl, don't force it, she doesn't have to be dominican, you might meet her tomorrow at the store. But if you want to use personal ads to meet someone from the Dominican Republic give it a try. You aren't a saint as you put it, but part of dating is sex as well and yes it would be wise to keep any of your female family members away from many of us posters:) Welcome to DR1, we aren't that bad.
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