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    Default maybe a different story??

    hello everybody. Iīm new in this forum.
    iīm a spanish 22years old girl (so i apologize if my english is no good enough) I consider myself to be a quite pretty girl, and i donīt have problems to find a boyfriend in my own country.

    i,ve been going to Dr since i was 15 and of course many dominican men tried to flirt with me, but as i think iīm quite an intelligent person, i was able to notice that that is so usual in resorts, so i never had any kind of relationship, further than friendship, with any of them

    well, last september i visited punta Cana and i meet a boy who was the boss of the entertaiment staff (i dont know if thatīs the correct way of saying that). Ant the begining , i couldnīt stand him, and he seemed to hate me. but suddenly we started a conversation, and during that days i found out that this guy was different, but he seem to see me just like a friend. but finally he told me about his real feelings about me, and so did i.

    During the rest of my holiday we had a kind of relationship like the ones i can have in my country. Of course, the fact that we speak the same language was important, because, i canīt understand how some girls can fall in love wtih someone in a resort if they don, t speak the same language, and each one knows only a few words of spanish or english.

    So we enjoy ourselves. He lived in an apartment outside the resort, and we spend many time together there.we went to the disco a couple of days, but we spend most of the time talking , and knowing each other, like i do with any other boy iīm interested in.

    i never made him any present or gave him money, but he gave me many presents. We were sincere all the time, but we didnīt talk about our love, as the greatest love in our lifes.

    Of course he earns more money than me, because iīm a student, and he is planning his future, he has just bought a property to build a house and he has a great car. He is 30 and iīm 22. He is a not dark skin, he seems to be an european guy

    we still keep in touch (he does more thing to keep in touch with me than i do)and we tell each other everytihng we do (notice i said everything)

    he was going to visit spain last february, but finally we didnīt have days enough for holiday. This september iīm going to see him again.

    From my point of view, most girls/boys in this forum had bad experiences with dominicans because they donīt have idea of how boys bahave, because i think is the same chating a dominican, an spoanih or an american boy. There are good boys, and bad boys. And if you are on holiday, please donīt expect to find your ideal couple, the greatest love you ever had, as you donīt expect that form a boy to have meet for a couple of days in your own country.

    Finally, think that the problems is not in the dominicans boys or girls,. The problems is in people who go there trying to forget about their lifes, and finding a diffrent love, and doing thing they woúldnīt do in their country. If you go to DR try to have fun, and try to see that boys, in general, as holiday loves.


    well, i hope you can undestand my english, and i hope to read your opinions

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    Congratulations. Wish you all the best. Your English is fine.


    Thanks for sharing.

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    At Lara's request I have reopened her thread. She said that she would like to hear people's opinion on her story and that she has read everything in this forum for the past year. So good luck hun.

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    Thumbs down Thank you for telling us that he doesn't have that "TERRIBLE"

    "DARK SKIN"! Right Lara?No one wants to have a "boyfriend" with dark skin!!!!!Here is some news,at 30 years old he is a man,not a boy! If he has a "great car",and an "apartment outside the resort"he didn't pay for them with what he gets paid as "Animation Boss"!They make very little money,from their job that is! You are "One-Of-Many"!Enjoy the relationship,make him wear 2 "condones",but just remember he is also "screwing" lots of fat old ugly women to pay for his car and apartment!Cris Colon He has a visa for Spain?Very Strange

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    jajaja, you are funny. sorry for "boy" or dark skin", i think my english is not good enough, but i hope you were able to understand me. We i talk about the fact that he was not dark skin, i only want to point out, that we are not very different, and of course i wouldnīt have any problem if he were dark skin. And the same when i talked about his car or his apartment (which is not his, the apartment is rented by the hotel), i was trying to be ironic, as i often read in this forum, post asking about the economic situation of the boy (ups, sorry, man).

    If he can have a car, and is planning to build a house, is because he is quite a responsible boy, and hard_worker, and he tries to saves for the future. And otherwise, believe me, i donīt care what he does wtih his body, he is not my husband, he is just a holiday love and what is more important, a great friend.

    Criss, i have read many of your posts, and you are always very funny, so iīm glad to answer any further doubt you have.

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    Lara,

    I'm curious as to why you want other people's opinions about your relationship with this guy? Are you seeking validation? What type of opinions are you looking for? Without personally knowing this guy, it's difficult for someone to give an honest opinion.

    You know him best and in my opinion you should think with your mind and not your heart, have fun and take any advice you get in this thread with a grain of salt. In the end it really means nothing because you're going to do what you want to do anyway.

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    Lara, don't like to tell you this. The boss of the animators does not earn much money. Even if by chance he comes from a wealthy family, the reason for the car and the property; the family would not have him working as a boss of the animators, he would be studying for - or already a doctor or lawyer, or at his age be running his own business.

    Did he show you property? If he did, it most probably belonged to someone else. He may have an apartment, but it is shared with somebody else. If he has a great car, it was borrowed. He was going to visit Spain, but didn't have enough holiday time. If you are a boss, you can negotiate time.

    If you do meet up with him again, be careful, he'll be looking for gifts. Regards, PJT

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    no, of course iīm not seeking for validation, because,i think there is nothing to validate, he is not my boyfriend, he is just an special friend.
    with my post i only wanted to share my experience, and to explain my point of view. for my the problem is not in the dominicans, you can have fun, and excepcionally find a real love, as you say, itīs better to use the brain instead of the hearth. I think relationships there are the same as in any other place. Or maybe iīm wrong because i came from a latin country. I mean, if you go no holiday to anywhere in your country, and you know someone, you donīt expect him to be you definitive love, so Why it should be different in Rd?
    and Criss Colon, of course i know iīm One of many, or better one of some (i hope you can understand what iīm trying to say), but he also knows he is not tht only boy/men in my live.

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    Because I think you have more brains than many who post similar stories here. Go slow. THINK.

    HB

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    Originally posted by Hillbilly
    I think you have more brains than many who post similar stories here.
    I agree with HB, and apparently others do, too. This is why the responses you are getting are very different from those to the posts of the many starry-eyed women pursuing some animacion guy as though he is the last man on earth.

    If I understand your posts correctly, you come to the DR for fun, including some good sex, then you go home and continue with your life untroubled by what your Dominican friend is doing in your absence.

    That is exactly what we tell other posters to do, however, they seem to feel that we are old fuddy duddies who wouldn't know true love if it bit us on the ankle.

    I wouldn't be surprised that one of the reasons this guy is so interested in you is because you obviously don't care how many other women he is with, how many other women call him or send him money. Must be quite a surprise to meet up with a female who doesn't throw herself at him.

    (Can't help buy wonder how many other dr1 posters are wondering if this is the same guy they were sure was in love with them.)

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