Haver is a smart guy. He's got a beautiful woman, she is happy that her family is well taken care of, Haver doesn't miss the money and is feeling good about himself. I'm sending about 15,000 per month, which I could easily piss away in New York without knowing where it's gone. Instead, a small family in SD is breaking the cycle of hopelessness. It's a win, win. - D (I know, wrong forum). - D