Partying in santo domingo.. Real Women?

PARTYBOY

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I was thinking of going to santo domingo instead of boca chica...

I want to see if i can meet some nice dominican women in the nicer discos of santo domingo...

I am talking classy clean women who are out just to have fun but may be interested in a good looking american guy.

Is this possible? do they exist? or is it all about the benjamines
 

Robert

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Of course they are about. This is more about you than them.

As for "classy" I guess your chances are almost zero, especially being a tourist and more used to Boca Chica.

Most "working" girls go home to family at Christmas, so I would imagine BC will be pretty dead.

If you cannot pick up "classy" girls back home, then your going to have the same problem here. Even more so if you have no Spanish skills.

Then again, your never know your luck in the big city :)
 

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PARTYBOY said:
I was thinking of going to santo domingo instead of boca chica...
I want to see if i can meet some nice dominican women in the nicer discos of santo domingo...

I am talking classy clean women who are out just to have fun but may be interested in a good looking american guy.

Is this possible? do they exist? or is it all about the benjamines
i'm really accordly with you.Go to party in Santo Domingo,forget Boca Chica is formated,prostitution because many GRINGO search girl...i know a very good place at San Vincente ,they are many many disco,and people is good.
but i can say you that you will not find bad women.You know bad people are in the world...it s true it s better for to know a better women when you go out of turist city...
 

PARTYBOY

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I do very well in the clubs where i live... and yes the classy ones....

But america has spoiled it women and its people, so i am forced to dream elsewhere...

I have also experienced almost everything here although arabic types seems to stick very much to there own... I am looking for a short fling with real feelings much like you would find here but with an exotic women from dr.

If i do well here and speak a bit of spanish doesn't my green card put me at a huge advantage? I ok with women looking at me for a GC or even a little money but i don't like the straight up business deal.
 

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PARTYBOY said:
I do very well in the clubs where i live... and yes the classy ones....

But america has spoiled it women and its people, so i am forced to dream elsewhere...

I have also experienced almost everything here although arabic types seems to stick very much to there own... I am looking for a short fling with real feelings much like you would find here but with an exotic women from dr.

If i do well here and speak a bit of spanish doesn't my green card put me at a huge advantage? I ok with women looking at me for a GC or even a little money but i don't like the straight up business deal.

Awww isn't that cute and sweet. A guy that wants to get laid but with real feelings and with a classy women. Well I never :rolleyes: Short fling eh? Some people!!! Just pay the money. What you want don't want you.
 

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PARTYBOY said:
I am looking for a short fling with real feelings much like you would find here but with an exotic women from dr.

If I was you, I would stick to BC or hookers. You might have some luck in the low end clubs in SD, but you better know Spanish, dance real well, otherwise it's going to be very tough going.
Look at the recent nightlife threads on the board for club advice. Also take a look at http://bonche.com

PARTYBOY said:
If i do well here and speak a bit of spanish doesn't my green card put me at a huge advantage?

Hahaha... the classy woman already have visas or US passports.
Plus the car, education, lifestyle and disposable income to make some of the USA counterparts drawl. Sorry, you can offer them nothing as a tourist.
 

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PARTYBOY said:
I do very well in the clubs where i live... and yes the classy ones....

But america has spoiled it women and its people, so i am forced to dream elsewhere...

I have also experienced almost everything here although arabic types seems to stick very much to there own... I am looking for a short fling with real feelings much like you would find here but with an exotic women from dr.

If i do well here and speak a bit of spanish doesn't my green card put me at a huge advantage? I ok with women looking at me for a GC or even a little money but i don't like the straight up business deal.

You may as well forget it then.....
Dominican classy women are certainly not looking for green cards.

You may find an attractive looking girl that you can flash your green card offer to but she is gonna be far from classy and if you are weak they are gonna have you flashing much more than your GC....They are gonna have you flashing your entire walet.
 

Lechero

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I suggest you learn the language and visit a gym in Santiago.
What are you looking for a Puta with good table manners?
 

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I think they have dating web sites for this sort of thing. I wonder how many classy women have one-night stands with gringo tourists. Here is a sure bet: Hire a professional lady from an american escort service (I'm sure you can find a latina with class), and fly her down there with you. It's only cost you 5 or 10 grand, but your fantasy will come true. Good luck. Bring lots of cash, something will sure to follow. ;)
 
PARTYBOY said:
I was thinking of going to santo domingo instead of boca chica...

I want to see if i can meet some nice dominican women in the nicer discos of santo domingo...

I am talking classy clean women who are out just to have fun but may be interested in a good looking american guy.

Is this possible? do they exist? or is it all about the benjamines

Do you speak Spanish fluent? If not forget about it, Why would a decent girl wanna hook up with a tourist for a week or so? Just be realistic.
 

borruga

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give this guy a break

Seems to me his request is absolutely legitimate. Isn?t this the 2nd thread recently with this type of idea? Being young and attractive should make it possible for him to score with nice girls without having to flash/spend a lot of cash, strongly assuming that this would be different for the older, having-long-passed-his-sexy-days gringo (to latter category the majority of the DR1ers tends to belong).

After all the same thing is absolutely feasible for us gringas, and another assumption of mine is that there is quite a wide range of Dominican ladies IN BETWEEN the described working girls and the classy ones with money and US visa/passport.

If he?s smooth and goes to the right places, he should definitely be able to attract the desired interest. All power to you PARTYBOY for not being just another consumer, but for offering your companionship and whatever else you have going for you.
 
borruga said:
Seems to me his request is absolutely legitimate. Isn?t this the 2nd thread recently with this type of idea? Being young and attractive should make it possible for him to score with nice girls without having to flash/spend a lot of cash, strongly assuming that this would be different for the older, having-long-passed-his-sexy-days gringo (to latter category the majority of the DR1ers tends to belong).

After all the same thing is absolutely feasible for us gringas, and another assumption of mine is that there is quite a wide range of Dominican ladies IN BETWEEN the described working girls and the classy ones with money and US visa/passport.

If he?s smooth and goes to the right places, he should definitely be able to attract the desired interest. All power to you PARTYBOY for not being just another consumer, but for offering your companionship and whatever else you have going for you.

How much would you be willing to wager he can't get any without paying? Without being able to converse in Spanish he is not going to be able to communicate with normal classy girls.
Badpiece
 

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How much would you be willing to wager he can't get any without paying? Without being able to converse in Spanish he is not going to be able to communicate with normal classy girls.
Badpiece

No Spanish is not the main obstacle. Many 'normal classy girls' here speak English.
 

borruga

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I accept the bet

How much would you be willing to wager he can't get any without paying? Without being able to converse in Spanish he is not going to be able to communicate with normal classy girls.
Badpiece

would want to see him in action before I decide for how much...
 

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Anna Coniglio said:
Awww isn't that cute and sweet. A guy that wants to get laid but with real feelings and with a classy women. Well I never :rolleyes: Short fling eh? Some people!!! Just pay the money. What you want don't want you.

Anna is on the mark. Trying to impress classy women here with a green card? The prejudice astound me. Classy women here are the same as classy women everywhere - they stick to their class and are not interested in tourists. A high class escort service may be just the thing for you.

If you came on vacation with no prejudices, and visited the right places, with the right people, you may meet someone really nice in the normal course of man-women things. But flashing that green card to impress? No way...

Pay for play .... ;) it is for you! And don't underestimate the skills of the women who play for pay - it never is a straight up business deal - the men almost always 'fall in love'. (At least that is what visitors tell me, I would not know).
 

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So the guy is a romantic... give him a break...

I can get laid in Orlando for $40, so why spend the money to fly to the D.R.?

For some (I am one of them) it is more than about sex. It is the hunt, the flirting, being able to spend time with someone, even if your spaglish is not so hot. Feeling appreciated and cared for. These are basic emotional needs that go beyond just having sex.

A high class escort? You can have a great weekend, but you know going in that its a done deal, so where is the mystery, pursuit, romance?

I will however agree, that you need to learn spanish. You won't get very far in establishing any type of relationship (except p4p) unless you can converse.
 
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Partyboy

In the immortal words of Donnie Branco:

Fogget about it..

Now let's have a realistic look at the situation:

What do you have to offer these girls:

1) Good Looks.. ok if you say so then you'll do fine with that. It's not enough for the classy women though! The college girls and normal girls will be happy with it though. But this alone will not get you the classy girls you want.

2) Money.. unless you're RICH they can (and will) do better in the DR. So no score here.

3) A possible future and stability... no way jose.. you're in and out and can't offer them anything that would be of lasting value, except a nice memory.

4) Great conversation or seducing skills... no sir.. you're communcation skills are limited so you won't get what you want in that manner.


Bottom line is when they go with you they will sully their reputation, because someone will see you together and it's not worth it for them.

What you describe does not want you!

Suggested alternative... if you go to a normal disco, dance well and speak a little Spanish or make an effort at it you will be able to hook up with a nice girl who will be looking for some adventure.. take her out and treat her nicely and she will be yours for the week..

Try not to promise her things you can't hold to and you will prob have a nice experience and return to the US with a clear consience.

Cheers,

MD