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I'm bisexual and will visit Boca Chica in a couple of weeks from now. I know it's easy to meet girls, but what about guys? I heard a lot of Dominican men are bi.
 

vera

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how to put this together, yeah, no problem - just approach the right "man" - like a sanki, otherwise a dominican man will break a bottle on your forehead.
 
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Many Dominican men that are not sankies are gay. You just have to hang out where they hang out in order to meet them.
 
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All big scarey tattooed Dominican men are gay. Good luck.
 

americangirl

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Hombre said:
I heard a lot of Dominican men are bi.

Is this true??? I know many Dominican men, especially those that work at resorts are alittle bit more effeminate. But, are they really bi?
 

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americangirl said:
Is this true??? I know many Dominican men, especially those that work at resorts are alittle bit more effeminate. But, are they really bi?

Some people will do anything for money but that doesn't necessarily mean they are bi or gay.

To add ;
does that make one bi? Not sure
 

jrzyguy

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there are pleanty of guys to meet who are not sankie and who are actualy really cool...and just want to get their groove on. I have found that many domincan men dont identify with either gay or bi...but are very sexual. Most of the men that i have encountered have good jobs (not animation workers), have got families....and have no problem with m2m encounters (and dont ask for money).

However...since it is your first trip...it will be difficult to meet non sankie (hustler) guys. Not impossible tho. Just gotta know where to look....but that isnt always the case either. I knew this one guy for about 5 years..never would i think he was "into it"...but sure enough we have had a few daliances over the years.
 

americangirl

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Are you looking to hand out with someone or are you looking for S*X? I do not know if I would recommend touching a sankie anywhere below the belt!!!:rolleyes:
 

miguel

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Not true!

Hombre said:
I heard a lot of Dominican men are bi.
This is just not true at all. At least not when it refers to a lot of proud and decent Dominicans. Sankies, sure.

Any reason why you are not going to the DR to get to know the country and it's people?.

Can't you stay in your own country and find the cheap sex that you are looking for?.

Believe or not, the DR is MORE than just a country where one can find pervertion!. It's full of beauty and their people are very friendly.

Like my grandpapa used to say:

"When a pig looks for pigs, pigs he will find".!!.

Btw, I have a friend who is a very proud Dominican, who happens to be 6'5 and 250 pounds, who beat the hell out a male tourist in Boca Chica just because the tourist tried to "pick him up". He would say, in between punches: "go mess-up your own country, mother f'er, boom boom!!.

Care to meet him?. Let me know.
 
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jrzyguy

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ha! you have got to be kidding!

i know someone in the BC area who fits that discription to a tee...but he is VERY nice and very friendly. (if you know what i mean)

trust me..there is pleanty of m2m action going on in boca chica, santo domingo, cabarete, santiago, sosua. etc. it is hardly a unique phenomenon.

this just isnt the best place to ask about it.

if worse comes to worse...and you dont find out where the cool local guys hang. Just go to the disco...a woman will hit on you..just compliment her..tell her that she is very attractive...but you are into guys...and she will call over her brother.

hopefully the OP is traveling for more than just a sexcapade...(there is really a lot more to do). and if he IS going for a sexcapade...is he any worse than many of the straight chica chasers and female chica chasers?

I have NEVER had any problem in regards to my sexuality in the DR. I dont flaunt it...i am discrete...but i dont go out of my way to hide it either. The only attitude i have gotten while in the DR is from ex pats. (usualy overweight older men who find it ok to run around with 20 year old girls..or younger...yet seem to be obsessed with 2 attractive middle age men hanging out).

just sayin'

Btw, I have a friend who is a very proud Dominican, who happens to be 6'5 and 250 pounds, who beat the hell out a male tourist in Boca Chica just because the tourist tried to "pick him up". He would say, in between punches: "go mess-up your own country, mother f'er, boom boom!!.

Care to meet him?. Let me know.[/QUOTE]
 

miguel

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Not, not at all!

jrzyguy said:
i know someone in the BC area who fits that discription to a tee...but he is VERY nice and very friendly. (if you know what i mean)

*****No, I don't know that you mean, my friend is a very well-to do and respected person and he would not be caught dead "hanging" out with a tourist known to go to the DR to get his "kicks". *****

and if he IS going for a sexcapade...is he any worse than many of the straight chica chasers and female chica chasers?

*****Listen, if he going to go and be a "John", more power to him but don't fricking come to a DR site flaunting it, asking on how to get a man!.*****

Believe if of not, there are SOME Dominicans that are annoyed when a person only think of their country as a country where they can just go, bang whomever crosses their paths, old or young, and then go home.

All I am saying is that sex predators should stay in their home countries and mess up their own "backyards".

Btw, in case you have not noticed, this guy is looking for anyone. First he was asking about bisexual Dominicans and on his last post, he is asking about a "bugarron". Yo do the math on how desperate this guy is since just about ANYBODY would do!.
 
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jrzyguy

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i hear ya.

I have noticed that straight folks get the same treatment when they ask such a blunt question. (with the exception of the threat of physical violence).

but face it...a lot of people go on vacaction to relax & party and in that equasion there is quite frequently some "boom boom" to be had.

I wonder how many people go to cancun looking for ruins or to experience authentic mexican culture.

on ones first trip it is highly doubtful that the op will meet someone of character. However, over the years i have met up with investment bankers, lawyers, politur, school teachers, doctors, etc (not all just for sex...but most were interested). it IS also quite possible that he might meet someone who hangs out on the beach to work the tourists...and who might not try to fleece him...who might turn him on to some of the other charms of the DR. That is what happened to me on my frirst visit. rather than just sitting on the same beach day after day..i met a guy who took me all along the south coast and into the city etc. He didnt really ask for all that much...just dinner and perhaps some food and milk (not money) for his children.

On that first visit i went for nothing else but with a typical gringo mentality of livin' it up and having fun on the beach. But because of such a great experience... i go back every year, have been working on my spanish, i listen to different music, (have been dating a dominican man here in nyc for nearly 4 years)...and i must say that my pescaco creole, rice & beans and tostones are off the hook due to pedro.

All i am trying to say. Is that rather than bash a toursit going there for the first time...politelty suggest that there are other things to do in the dr. If you dont like his post (and i dont think it was all too much)...just let it be.

oh...and again..there are plenty of upstanding dominican men in the DR who are most certainly willing and want to hang out with travelers. Most are affraid to do much there on their own.


Hope i havent come off as too pushy in this thread. Just thought i would try to explain the "other" side :cheeky:
 

miguel

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jrzyguy said:
All i am trying to say. Is that rather than bash a toursit going there for the first time...politelty suggest that there are other things to do in the dr. If you dont like his post (and i dont think it was all too much)...just let it be.

*****Politely?. If a person comes to a site just asking about how to find a man, whether is a female or a male, there's no doubt in ANYBODY's mind that he is NOT interested in anything other than sex. Maybe I did not read the part were he said: "I heard that the DR is beautiful, I would love to see it for myself and I hope that can meet some friendly Dominicans since I have heard that they are so nice".

Now let me ask you something and it has nothing to do with the poster:

Suppose that you have 4 underage kids and a pedophile moves right next door to you, how "polite" would you be if one day you come home and he is playing catch with your 4 kids in the backyard?.*****



oh...and again..there are plenty of upstanding dominican men in the DR who are most certainly willing and want to hang out with travelers. Most are affraid to do much there on their own.

*****Like I said before, people WILL get what they are looking for, as long as they are looking in the "right" places. I am not stupid (shut up AZB, I am not) and I know that there are gay and bi people in all social classes in the DR. *****


Hope i havent come off as too pushy in this thread. Just thought i would try to explain the "other" side :cheeky:

*****Not pushy at all. But let's get something straight:

Whatever consenting adults do, it's their business but just keep it to yourself. I know that many, here, do the same as the OP wants to do and those people see nothing wrong with it but on the same token, there are members that do not find it too amusing when someone basically says: "I am going to your country just to meet a man, some men or a bugarron for sex".*****

You know, La barbie is always saying that there's a double standard, here on DR1, and that when a woman asks a question similar to the OP's, that she is labeled a whore and such. She is right.

Here, in DR1, we have what I call a "true member" and a "passing by" member.

A "true member" is one who registers, posts a "hi all, my name is" thread, contributes with information and advices (whether we agree with them or not) and stays for years.

A "passing by" member are those that all they want to do is ask a question, stay for a while or until they get the answer that they want to hear and then goes away and forgets that DR1 even exists.

Care to guess which one is the OP?. Give me your answer in about 1 year but let me give you a little hint:

The OP have 3 posts, all on this thread and I am yet to see a "hi" on any of them, he went straight "for the kill".
 
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jrzyguy

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I hear ya miguel. And while i agree on some things (especialy about the stealth posters who bluntly ask about certain things)..i have to respectfuly disagree on a couple of things.

I have been contacted by DR1 members and other friends...who when traveling to nyc want to know where the best bars and clubs are etc (and they are NOT going for good music...but rather for the best cruising)

There sure is a heck of a lot more to do in NYC than go to discos and bars etc (something i dont do a lot of)...but i understand that they are in tourist mode...so perhaps i might meet for a drink or dinner...and then i point them in the right direction.

There is a Thrill factor of being in a different city or a different country..and for some people that gets their pheramones jumping...and gets them all horny.

Before i moved here from boston...i would come down here to nyc (i was in my 20's) and i just wanted to party all night long...and yeah mix and mingle and get my groove on. I certainly wasnt desperate for sex in boston...but i admit to enjoying that part of my escapades to nyc (as well as broadway shows and museums and walks across the brooklyn bridge...etc.).

I think a cool way to deal with these stealth posters, if you care to reply to them, is simply say "cant help you with all of that...but realize that there is a whole country and culture to explore". Doubt it will work...but it certainly sounds better than there is a 250 pound man waiting there to beat you up. If they dont find the information they are looking for here..they will move on (and there are sites that can tell someone exactly to go in the DR to look for this sort of stuff).

Interesting tho...i know quite a few guys who would not be caught dead walking around duarte or most anywhere in boca chica or the zona colonial...but when they are in nyc they totaly change.

I find it interesting tho...that you didnt reply to anything about my story about my first experience in DR and how that opened every thing up for me there.
 

miguel

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Ok!

jrzyguy said:
I hear ya miguel. And while i agree on some things (especialy about the stealth posters who bluntly ask about certain things)..i have to respectfuly disagree on a couple of things.

I have been contacted by DR1 members and other friends...who when traveling to nyc want to know where the best bars and clubs are etc (and they are NOT going for good music...but rather for the best cruising)

*****. Well, the difference is that those members are not asking you, straight out, where they can met people for sex. See, if anybody, ANYBODY, asks me where they can find people for sex, my reply to them would be: "who in hell do you think I am, a fricking pimp, get a life you axx-hole". Now, if they ask me about a club but with a "hidden agenda", I don't care since I know that anything can happen, anywhere*****

I find it interesting tho...that you didnt reply to anything about my story about my first experience in DR and how that opened every thing up for me there.

*****As I said before, whatever consenting adults do with their lives, that's their problem. But let me ask you so you see that there's nothing interesting about me not commenting on your first trip:

Did you, before going to the DR for the first time, come to DR1 and asked the members where to get a man for cheap sex?. If not, then the above statement applies. If yes, then I would had said the EXACT same thing to you also*****.
 

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Perhaps better 'bang for buck' elsewhere ....

IF his only purpose for visiting the DR is 'economical' sex, there may other destinations where he may get 'more' for his money. There are too many other attractions to captivate someone truly interested in the beauty of the DR ... climate, beach, natural greenery, people, etc.
 

miguel

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Indeed!.

shadInToronto said:
IF his only purpose for visiting the DR is 'economical' sex, there may other destinations where he may get 'more' for his money. There are too many other attractions to captivate someone truly interested in the beauty of the DR ... climate, beach, natural greenery, people, etc.
shad, a "blast from the past".

You are right and I think that jrzyguy just do not understand that all I am trying to say that IF YOU ARE ONLY GOING TO THE DR JUST FOR CHEAP SEX:

STAY THE HELL OUT!. Stay in your own country or go to Mars.

I hear that the Martians have their own sankies and that they have a something similar to Viagra, called MSLF (MatianSankieLoveFormula), which makes those little green suckers "go at it" for weeks without having to rest. Lucky bastards!.

Btw, there's is no double standard coming from me because if a Dominican posts that he wants to come to the US just for perverted sex, I would also tell him the same I am telling the OP.