I am creating this as a spinoff of another thread where people are talking about giving money to street beggers. I want every tourist that reads this to give the next street begger they encounter in the DR 100 pesos and pay specific attention to the beggers reaction. Do you think he will say "thank you"?????? Nope, he wont. He will take it, stuff it in his pocket and walk away from the fool who gave him 100 pesos. That is the attitude here. Someone in the other thread even claims that Dominicans are far more generous than tourists when it comes to the beggers. That couldn't be further from the truth. Philantropy is nonexistant in this country. Contrary to what many people think, the truth is that this is a culture of "haves" and "have nots". If you are a "have not" you are simply on the bottom of the totem pole (immediately above Hatians and street dogs). A wealthy Dominican will step over a man dying in the street before he will give him a peso. A wealthy Dominican woman driving an SUV will run over a poor Dominican crossing the street if he dosent get out of her way. And then she will keep going. That is the way it is here. Anyone who claims that Dominicans are a generous, caring, considerate lot has no clue.
Now, the reason why beggers make a bee-line for tourists is simply because tourists are the only FOOLS who will give them anything. That is why they walk away without saying "thank you" after you give them something. They are not thankful....they simply got money from a fool and it is time to move on in search of the next fool. Give a limpia bota boy some money and it's the same thing. He wont thank you. He does not recognize the act of you giving as being generous, he simply sees it as your stupidity in giving your money to someone else. Now months ago, I decided to stop giving for this reson. Then, one day, I was eating a meal alone at an outside restaurant in the capital. I was sitting at the counter with my back to the street when I heard a young boy say, "Amigo, yo tengo hambre. Favor comprame algo". I tried to ignore him but my heart got the better of me. I turned around and saw a young barefoot limpia bota boy looking up at me with wide eyes. I turned back around to the counter and looked up at a rack of different kinds of bags of patato chips. I then said to the boy " Are you hungry? Pick a bag of chips and I will buy it for you". He shook his head. Confused, I asked him, " you dont like patato chips???", to which he replied, " no, dejame ver la carta" ( I want to see the menu) while pointing at the menu at the counter. At this point, he figured I was a fool and would buy him whatever he wanted. I was shocked. I then said to him " do you want a bag of chips or not"? and he made a face and walked away. I swear to God that is a true story.
That is the attitude here. If you give, you are a sucker. Next time you are in a casino and ask for a drink, tip the waitress who brings it and see if she says "thank you". She wont.
Larry
Now, the reason why beggers make a bee-line for tourists is simply because tourists are the only FOOLS who will give them anything. That is why they walk away without saying "thank you" after you give them something. They are not thankful....they simply got money from a fool and it is time to move on in search of the next fool. Give a limpia bota boy some money and it's the same thing. He wont thank you. He does not recognize the act of you giving as being generous, he simply sees it as your stupidity in giving your money to someone else. Now months ago, I decided to stop giving for this reson. Then, one day, I was eating a meal alone at an outside restaurant in the capital. I was sitting at the counter with my back to the street when I heard a young boy say, "Amigo, yo tengo hambre. Favor comprame algo". I tried to ignore him but my heart got the better of me. I turned around and saw a young barefoot limpia bota boy looking up at me with wide eyes. I turned back around to the counter and looked up at a rack of different kinds of bags of patato chips. I then said to the boy " Are you hungry? Pick a bag of chips and I will buy it for you". He shook his head. Confused, I asked him, " you dont like patato chips???", to which he replied, " no, dejame ver la carta" ( I want to see the menu) while pointing at the menu at the counter. At this point, he figured I was a fool and would buy him whatever he wanted. I was shocked. I then said to him " do you want a bag of chips or not"? and he made a face and walked away. I swear to God that is a true story.
That is the attitude here. If you give, you are a sucker. Next time you are in a casino and ask for a drink, tip the waitress who brings it and see if she says "thank you". She wont.
Larry