I really enjoyed reading all of your posts! I learned a lot and I have a little story to tell, too.
Me and my roommate recently went on a vacation in Cancun, Mexico. We are Bulgarian but we reside in the US. We were going to the same salsa club every night, since everything else was way too American and we just wanted to feel like we're in Mexico. There was a Dominican band singing in this place and we really enjoyed them. The second time we went to the club there was a new dominicano singing who turned out to be the band leader. I noticed he was constantly looking and smiling at me and I thought he was really attractive so I was doing the same. Unfortunately, after a while I also noticed he had a girl waiting for him...
I've had experience with latino guys and I learned the hard way that they all are jugadores y mentirosos so I just stopped looking back and continued having fun dancing. After a while one of the band members approached me and gave me the phone number of the guy I liked. I took it but never called...
How can you have a girl waiting for you and give your number to someone you haven't even talked to?
Anyway, we went there again on our last night in Cancun. This time there was no girl waiting... The same band member came up to me and asked me why I didn't call S. (the jugador). I went outside and S. was there... We started talking... When he found out I was leaving the next day he said "Mami, don't do this to me, stay at least for a day more!" He seemed really irritated that we had guys on our table (what an asshole!) Anyway, I really enjoyed talking to him and since it was my last night I didn't really care. After he finished singing we went to the beach and I hate to admit had sex... I know! That was not very smart but I figured I am never going to see him again. Well, we spent some time just lying and talking on the beach and before he left he gave me the bracelet he was wearing which said "Dominican Republic." He said that it was nothing but he wanted me to have something from him.
I am back now but we text message back and forth all the time. He says he wants me to go and he would buy my ticket and everything. He also said he wants to visit me in the US. I know he's been here many time before...
I don't think he really wants to see me that much after just a night. I am not stupid and I know how it works but I wonder.....
Me and my roommate recently went on a vacation in Cancun, Mexico. We are Bulgarian but we reside in the US. We were going to the same salsa club every night, since everything else was way too American and we just wanted to feel like we're in Mexico. There was a Dominican band singing in this place and we really enjoyed them. The second time we went to the club there was a new dominicano singing who turned out to be the band leader. I noticed he was constantly looking and smiling at me and I thought he was really attractive so I was doing the same. Unfortunately, after a while I also noticed he had a girl waiting for him...
I've had experience with latino guys and I learned the hard way that they all are jugadores y mentirosos so I just stopped looking back and continued having fun dancing. After a while one of the band members approached me and gave me the phone number of the guy I liked. I took it but never called...
How can you have a girl waiting for you and give your number to someone you haven't even talked to?
Anyway, we went there again on our last night in Cancun. This time there was no girl waiting... The same band member came up to me and asked me why I didn't call S. (the jugador). I went outside and S. was there... We started talking... When he found out I was leaving the next day he said "Mami, don't do this to me, stay at least for a day more!" He seemed really irritated that we had guys on our table (what an asshole!) Anyway, I really enjoyed talking to him and since it was my last night I didn't really care. After he finished singing we went to the beach and I hate to admit had sex... I know! That was not very smart but I figured I am never going to see him again. Well, we spent some time just lying and talking on the beach and before he left he gave me the bracelet he was wearing which said "Dominican Republic." He said that it was nothing but he wanted me to have something from him.
I am back now but we text message back and forth all the time. He says he wants me to go and he would buy my ticket and everything. He also said he wants to visit me in the US. I know he's been here many time before...
I don't think he really wants to see me that much after just a night. I am not stupid and I know how it works but I wonder.....