Glad you found out what OP means...........LOL Don't worry you will catch on.
I go out dancing regularly to local places where you will find lots of "willing" dance partners. The previous posts are dead on correct.
You can go alone, as a group, with other tourists, or with some local ex pats........ whatever your choice. There are several decent spots to dance the night away but it is merengue, bachatta and salsa music withe the odd reggaeton thrown in. Unless you are into that you will be bored after a while. IF you want regular thump thump thump, hip hop etc, stay in playa dorada at one of the 3 clubs there.
Let me know if you want more info.