reetings,
Well I have just returned once again from the beautiful sugary sands of DR...and I have to tell you this last trip really threw me for a loop, I went with my beautiful daughter and her cousin, another 2 weeks in paradise...came back to the same resort, same bartenders, same friends same everything we had made the last 2 trips..and still No idea "Sanky Panky " exists, there were many opportunities for "these so called friends" to tell us about Sankies..or even warn us that this an epidemic in tourism...I was clueless, I didn't even learn of the word until I returned home and started getting " Dominican Death threats" ...Oh yes...seems to me my Sanky "the waiter" was very much into a relationship and not to mention very much busted for a text message he received by me...only she got to it first!
Luckily I was on my last 3 days before my trip needed, it was new years eve, I had a few drinks and when the fireworks went off, we connected...we never even glanced at each other before, I had seen him all 3 stays, but I was not interested in any kind of relationship with any of them, so I believe when they say it's in the eyes...I gave him a glance of approval, I know how I flirt, I provoked him to pick me. Do they pick us? do we pick them? either way..in 3 days I was hooked...3 days, I have been single for about 5 years, i am 35 years old...mind you i look and feel younger, Everyone thought my daughter was just a friend.
I'm just grateful I got the phone call from the girlfriend ? wife? whichever she is, there was allot of Spanish yelling I didn't understand, the words I did understand were "DEAD" and Sanky Panky- I thought she was asking me if I did Hanky Panky? like I said clueless..
I called my Canadian friend that lives in DR and he is the one that told me about DR1 and this forum..I have to say thanks for this...you guys have definitely helped me get over the "hurt" feelings, I was starting to develop feelings for him, and I am extremely generous I think if I hadn't discovered this forum I would have listened to the excuses that quickly came by text.Instead I changed my cell number so that neither of them can reach me again.
fortunately the girls had an amazing vacation, they enjoyed the eye candy very much but not enough to fall for prey.
I will be drfinately visiting those sugary sands again, however..i will proceed with caution..and maybe try a new resort.
thanks for sharing your stories...all the best and happy and safe travels!
Well I have just returned once again from the beautiful sugary sands of DR...and I have to tell you this last trip really threw me for a loop, I went with my beautiful daughter and her cousin, another 2 weeks in paradise...came back to the same resort, same bartenders, same friends same everything we had made the last 2 trips..and still No idea "Sanky Panky " exists, there were many opportunities for "these so called friends" to tell us about Sankies..or even warn us that this an epidemic in tourism...I was clueless, I didn't even learn of the word until I returned home and started getting " Dominican Death threats" ...Oh yes...seems to me my Sanky "the waiter" was very much into a relationship and not to mention very much busted for a text message he received by me...only she got to it first!
Luckily I was on my last 3 days before my trip needed, it was new years eve, I had a few drinks and when the fireworks went off, we connected...we never even glanced at each other before, I had seen him all 3 stays, but I was not interested in any kind of relationship with any of them, so I believe when they say it's in the eyes...I gave him a glance of approval, I know how I flirt, I provoked him to pick me. Do they pick us? do we pick them? either way..in 3 days I was hooked...3 days, I have been single for about 5 years, i am 35 years old...mind you i look and feel younger, Everyone thought my daughter was just a friend.
I'm just grateful I got the phone call from the girlfriend ? wife? whichever she is, there was allot of Spanish yelling I didn't understand, the words I did understand were "DEAD" and Sanky Panky- I thought she was asking me if I did Hanky Panky? like I said clueless..
I called my Canadian friend that lives in DR and he is the one that told me about DR1 and this forum..I have to say thanks for this...you guys have definitely helped me get over the "hurt" feelings, I was starting to develop feelings for him, and I am extremely generous I think if I hadn't discovered this forum I would have listened to the excuses that quickly came by text.Instead I changed my cell number so that neither of them can reach me again.
fortunately the girls had an amazing vacation, they enjoyed the eye candy very much but not enough to fall for prey.
I will be drfinately visiting those sugary sands again, however..i will proceed with caution..and maybe try a new resort.
thanks for sharing your stories...all the best and happy and safe travels!