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DR-Defender
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Hello Everyone!!!
I know what I'm about to post is not directly about Dominican Republic but since I am a Dominican I'm sure you can overlook that fact. Please reply only if your comments will be constructive(I don't need any silly comments, thanks!)
Ok...here it goes!!
I met this girl here in Massachusetts where I live and there is sort of a little problem. Before I met her I had planned to go to Dom. Rep for my vacation which is on the 31st of this month. The problem is that I do like this girl enough to really go after having something sirious with her but I as I had already planned I don't want to have any commitment when I go to DR because I want to be able to do whatever I want. Now, we have been talking about this for a little while and we never really get anywhere. I'm starting to feel a bit selfish because in a sense I want to have her and also do whatever I want when I go on my vacation. I did mention to her that I was not ready to have anything sirious at the time but that's only because of my current situation. What I've been planning to do is go to DR and when I come back start all over again but she doesn't like the idea even though she has accepted somewhat. The issue here is that I'm feeling guilty because she's a sweet heart and I don't want hurt her in any way. So, here is the question:
Should I just commit to her and go on vacation and behave like a commited man or should I go to DR, do whatever I want, and when I come back work on getting commited?
P.S I really just want to do the right thing here so please help out as best as you can.
Thanks in advance!
Best wishes always,
DR-Defender
I know what I'm about to post is not directly about Dominican Republic but since I am a Dominican I'm sure you can overlook that fact. Please reply only if your comments will be constructive(I don't need any silly comments, thanks!)
Ok...here it goes!!
I met this girl here in Massachusetts where I live and there is sort of a little problem. Before I met her I had planned to go to Dom. Rep for my vacation which is on the 31st of this month. The problem is that I do like this girl enough to really go after having something sirious with her but I as I had already planned I don't want to have any commitment when I go to DR because I want to be able to do whatever I want. Now, we have been talking about this for a little while and we never really get anywhere. I'm starting to feel a bit selfish because in a sense I want to have her and also do whatever I want when I go on my vacation. I did mention to her that I was not ready to have anything sirious at the time but that's only because of my current situation. What I've been planning to do is go to DR and when I come back start all over again but she doesn't like the idea even though she has accepted somewhat. The issue here is that I'm feeling guilty because she's a sweet heart and I don't want hurt her in any way. So, here is the question:
Should I just commit to her and go on vacation and behave like a commited man or should I go to DR, do whatever I want, and when I come back work on getting commited?
P.S I really just want to do the right thing here so please help out as best as you can.
Thanks in advance!
Best wishes always,
DR-Defender