..so if anyone out there can help me with this please feel free to post.
I would like to know how some of the guys who constantly berate tourists on this site, and go on and on about how we have no clue as to how how "respectable" dominicans live, how exactly do they explain their unrepentant womanizing in these so-called "respectable" circles.
How some of these men can show up to someones' house and date a young, smart, talented and successful young lady from a good home for a few weeks at a time maximum and then go on to the next conquest.
I want to know how this type of activity is allowed in such respectable circles and who allows it.
Because, correct me if I'm wrong, a respectable young lady is very much the property of her family, so I can only assume that her dating life is closely monitored and the men she dates are scrutinized severely. I can only make this assumption as I do not know for certain how this all works.
Or is this part of their lives devoid of any scrutiny?
Because it would seem strange to me having a middle-aged man with no children dating woman after woman with no intentions on getting married in their midst would not be cause for concern, that this pattern would not be spoken of as a bad quality amongst these dominicans.
And it would also seem strange that someone would allow their young daughter to date someone like this knowing that this particular man is only out to get laid and then goes on to the next young lady after he is done with her.
That aside from a good time(that will last only a short time) this man has nothing to offer my daughter and is not serious about developing a relationship with her.
So since I know nothing about how this works, please clarify this for me.
I am here to learn.
I would like to know how some of the guys who constantly berate tourists on this site, and go on and on about how we have no clue as to how how "respectable" dominicans live, how exactly do they explain their unrepentant womanizing in these so-called "respectable" circles.
How some of these men can show up to someones' house and date a young, smart, talented and successful young lady from a good home for a few weeks at a time maximum and then go on to the next conquest.
I want to know how this type of activity is allowed in such respectable circles and who allows it.
Because, correct me if I'm wrong, a respectable young lady is very much the property of her family, so I can only assume that her dating life is closely monitored and the men she dates are scrutinized severely. I can only make this assumption as I do not know for certain how this all works.
Or is this part of their lives devoid of any scrutiny?
Because it would seem strange to me having a middle-aged man with no children dating woman after woman with no intentions on getting married in their midst would not be cause for concern, that this pattern would not be spoken of as a bad quality amongst these dominicans.
And it would also seem strange that someone would allow their young daughter to date someone like this knowing that this particular man is only out to get laid and then goes on to the next young lady after he is done with her.
That aside from a good time(that will last only a short time) this man has nothing to offer my daughter and is not serious about developing a relationship with her.
So since I know nothing about how this works, please clarify this for me.
I am here to learn.
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