first post here ever! rocket from vancouver, canada and have travelled to DR a few times to stay mainly at the Occidental/allegro resorts, Why? because i bought (cheap by today's price) vacation club membership in 2000 at playa grande when it was still an allegro resort. best part of membership is they allow me to travel solo and don't screw me for any single supplement charge. get to stay in a big friggin suite with a few cool perks,, and just hang out and drink more than usual, (as you can guess- drinking/driving back home will f you up big time)
OK, to get to the point more and sorry for the wind here- most recently having going through inital stages of seperation I decided to travel to DR again solo. met a lovely DR young woman 3 years ago while at an AI and just by chance decided to call her. amazing i still had her # and equally amazed she answers. tells me alot has happened the last 3 years.; ie; married/although that will soon be over, and baby. then she turns the phone over to her cousin who is also 24 years old, and we chat, exchange emails, calls, etc.. she speaks fluent english, as she was married to an american and lived in jersey for a couple years/ now that is all but over. we organize to meet at the airport and she takes the bus there from her home in SD. she says she's never taken a bus before? then we proceed to spend the entire week together at the AI in punta cana! well we had a great time for sure. yes, i am twice her age but kept up with her in every way except maybe her energy at the nightclub> man, could she dance!! now we are very fond of each other and i am planning a 5-6 week trip in a few months to stay at an AI for part of it, , then want to explore Santo Domingo, and surrounding areas. she says of course i am welcome at her apartment where she lives alone, and not to worry as her friends will think i am cool. now the million $$$ question? am i that niave, or should i just try to hook up with this great gal for a while, and go solo to check out the many other female possibilites which from what i have read on this forum the last 2 weeks are bountiful if you are smart, and patience, and don't walk around with your DK hanging out of your pants all day/night! sorry, as it almost seems i am totally torn between commiting myself for the entire 5-6 week trip trip to one DR woman, or play the field, and go for a few more! feedback is appreciatted, and remember this is my first post!! hahaha