get an agreement in writting
Been there, oh still am there.
First make 100% it is your child, locally now you can get DNA done for less that 4 bills.
If you truly are not working and with out income, the judge will order a minimum of RD$3,000.00 per month, their out look is you have to eat and so does your child.
If you go to court, AND you do not have RECIEPTS that you have been taking care of this child, they can request from time of conception, plus 50% of child birth costs, and guess what, SHE WILL GET IT.
My child's mother tried to have a Order against my leaving the country served, an "impedimento de salida" this was after the judgement, actually she sued me, I ended up get her to a written agreement, the tribunal accepted and that was that.
Anyway, she still tried to get the impedimento de salida, the judge and court in general were frustrated and upset that she had wasted their time, they told me I could go as I wished.
Now if you have a court order against you, you are behind payments or have not paid, then they can get an impedimento de salida against you, then you would have to leave a bond, or coverage for the child support for the next 12 months AND pay an insurance policy that would pay the support if you did not return or at the end of 12 months make other arrangements for the payments.
Guess what else she can do......well pm and I will tell you, we do not want to them to know it they all ready do not.
Keep it out of if the tribunal if you can, get an aggrement in writting and get all receipts for EVERYTHING, including clothes and gifts.
Get her to sign a receipt that you have given her support in the past up until todays date.
Be sweet, be good, you say you are broke, well you gotta do something to get this fixed ASAP or it will HAUNT you until the kid is 18!
Again, BEST advice is MAKE 1,000% it is your child, NOW!
If the mother fights against this and cries you don't beleieve me, boho!
Even more, then if you go to the tribunal, make the denial of the child and the Tribuanl will order the DNA, on you tab of course.
learn from my mistakes, better for you!
best of luck