Middle Ground
I think that you are both right, actually.
Here is the latest US government advisory for Haiti:
Haiti
Now, having established that the place is a bit edgy-- Nevertheless, it does have some of the finest restaurants, hotels, beaches, and sights on the entire island.....
For the upscale tourist, there is little in the DR that can compare. The hotels are small. The service is -well- French. The cooking is also mostly from French-influence and delicious. Hold on, just a moment, I can still taste that lamb!
The beaches at the few resort hotels are pristine and blissfully quiet and empty (try Kaliko Beach on the North Coast or Ile A Vache).. Contact Jaqui Labrum or the hotel for travel arrangements:
Jacqualine Labrom is at
voyageslumierehaiti@gmail.com
Petionville, where the upper class Haitians live, is filled with elegant restuarants hotels, gorgeous architecture, beautiful tree lined streets.
There is also a beautiful hotel in the mountains of Kenscoff, overlooking the City.
And the art that you will find in Haiti - is indeed- the real thing... not the mass produced copies that you see on the streets here. Don't miss the market at Croix de Bouquet.
Go. Please. Inhale it. You may actually discover why so many people have fallen in love with the place, despite its poverty, despite its deforestation, despite despite despite...
Don't miss Sunday afternoons on the porch of the Hotel Olaffson, where you may have the privilege of being included in discussions with Cuban doctors, Haitian journalists, foreign academics, and the Haitian American owner, Richard Morse.
It will probably cost you more money than traveling about here unless you are really an intrepid traveler and can get about by Tap Tap -- and want to stay at some of the hostals run by missionaries...
Although I know of at least two secluded beach places for under $30 a night.
You are never going to know what you are missing if you don't go.
I adore Haiti, personally. I live here because it is about half the price and offers twice the convenience. But this island - the two nations combined- provides a vacation experience second to none.
If you have no French or Kreyole, it would be best to contact Jaqui for your first visit.
Enjoy, enjoy, enjoy.