You know I can feel the hate, I just don?t know why it is so strong. Since I have been perusing the forums on this site, I have noticed it in many of the postings. I personally don?t know why everybody seems so concerned with it, because as far as I am concerned it is a personal preference. Why such a virulent criticism regarding a person?s dress. What I am talking about is the apparent desire of many North Americans to wear shorts and sandals. Posting after posting there are snide remarks about this particular style of attire.
Now I have heard the Dominican saying before regarding men wearing shorts, ? Shorts are for children and clowns?, says who? I simply don?t get it, why does what I choose to wear concern so many people out there. I am one of those, I guess you would call us, ugly Americans because I wear shorts about 90% of the time, my footwear varies. I have lived in the Dominican Republic now for a little over a year and a half, and I really didn?t know it was such a problem until I recently began reading different postings on this site.
Now at one time in my life my mother would dress me and I understood that she was concerned in how I looked and presented myself while out in public, that is after all a mother?s prerogative. But now that I am grown can?t I wear what makes me feel comfortable? After all it is the Caribbean, at least it was the last time I looked and most days are very hot. Now I don?t make snide remarks if I see someone running around in long pants and a tie, I may think to myself that they look a little uncomfortable, but I don?t have any desire to run up to them and tell them about themselves.
I guess now that I have reached this stage of my life, I would like to take it a little bit easier and maybe the shorts or a symbol of that. I have been retired now for a little more than 2 years. Before that I was a Detective in NY and as such wore a suit and tie just about everyday. If I never have to put on another one of those, I would be very happy. Actually in storage as I am sitting here writing this, I have probably 20 suits, and different other combinations of sport jackets and slacks, and at least 50 different ties. And you know what, I haven?t thought at all about bringing them down here. I guess I feel that my obligation when I go out in public is to have on clean clothes, have them pressed neatly, and not wear anything that would be considered vulgar or offensive.
But then again maybe I am missing something, hopefully some of you that have made comments about this phenomena would comment and help educate me.
Thanks,
Yayow
Now I have heard the Dominican saying before regarding men wearing shorts, ? Shorts are for children and clowns?, says who? I simply don?t get it, why does what I choose to wear concern so many people out there. I am one of those, I guess you would call us, ugly Americans because I wear shorts about 90% of the time, my footwear varies. I have lived in the Dominican Republic now for a little over a year and a half, and I really didn?t know it was such a problem until I recently began reading different postings on this site.
Now at one time in my life my mother would dress me and I understood that she was concerned in how I looked and presented myself while out in public, that is after all a mother?s prerogative. But now that I am grown can?t I wear what makes me feel comfortable? After all it is the Caribbean, at least it was the last time I looked and most days are very hot. Now I don?t make snide remarks if I see someone running around in long pants and a tie, I may think to myself that they look a little uncomfortable, but I don?t have any desire to run up to them and tell them about themselves.
I guess now that I have reached this stage of my life, I would like to take it a little bit easier and maybe the shorts or a symbol of that. I have been retired now for a little more than 2 years. Before that I was a Detective in NY and as such wore a suit and tie just about everyday. If I never have to put on another one of those, I would be very happy. Actually in storage as I am sitting here writing this, I have probably 20 suits, and different other combinations of sport jackets and slacks, and at least 50 different ties. And you know what, I haven?t thought at all about bringing them down here. I guess I feel that my obligation when I go out in public is to have on clean clothes, have them pressed neatly, and not wear anything that would be considered vulgar or offensive.
But then again maybe I am missing something, hopefully some of you that have made comments about this phenomena would comment and help educate me.
Thanks,
Yayow