That is an exaggeration, Tom. Posts by family members being deleted as fast as they were posted? Anna and I have worked virtually round the clock to prevent anything that could cause distress from being posted.
Other issues have emerged too and it is better not to let them interfere with the priority which is to find D'Arcy safe and sound and support those who are pursuing this goal.
You could equally say that their decision to stop posting was inconsiderate to DR1 posters, and that was in fact my initial reaction, but I now accept that there are more serious reasons behind this.
My personal choice would be to keep it open for expressions of concerns and good wishes only, and that when there is any CONCRETE information approved by those directly connected to the case it could be posted, but we would need to regain their confidence and it might be even more of a challenge to moderate.