I need the advise of women here in this forum to help a friend of mine...SKing I need your advise the most because you have lived in America as well as the Dominican Republic......First of I am a male if you cold not figure it out and my friend is a female. Her situation is as follows, she is a Afro American female with two kids and never married. She is going to DR to meet a man she met online.(Please no Sanky jokes....LOL). I am trying to give her advise on how to carry herself and how to dress. The reason for this is I'm trying to help her level the playing field at least in the looks department. I told her that Dominicans are very vain as to their looks. For example I told her before she goes down there to dress different and something as simple to pluck her eyebrows and she told me that only fake "Barbie Girls" do that. Also he has two kids. (His wife died). I just don't want my friend at the end of the day to be used for a "Visa". I would like the advise of the ladies on this forum to assist me in how to explain to her what she will have to do if she expects to have any hope in keeping that relationship. And by the way on her first trip to see him they are getting married right away. Can the women please post some advise without tearing into her so that she hopefully don't make a huge mistake. She is a member of this forum as well......So please be kind.