Advise needed to help a friend

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Hillbilly

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The list of negative adjectives that comes to mind is nearly endless.
Everything from Absurd to Zanny

This should not happen under any circumstances. There is no end to the bad things that could happen. Getting dumped into the ocean with no trace left is just the worst. Being left penniless is certainly a possibility. The degree of stupidity this entails is
almost like trying to count the grains of sand in the world (said to be 2000 billion billion==or something like that!)

I feel sorry for her poor self image. The fact that she has two kids and no husband seems to be indicative of here AA heritage with 70% of kids in one parent homes...SAD is another word that comes to mind.
 

DRsantos

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It kinda of weird that this thread gets more than 70 replies. I'm just asking myself is this really necessary to post on DR1. But hey "whateva" makes you tick right!
 

barker1964

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It kinda of weird that this thread gets more than 70 replies. I'm just asking myself is this really necessary to post on DR1. But hey "whateva" makes you tick right!

Maybe yes maybe no but atleast I was given advise to possibly hep her to create a fake profile contact him and see how he responds working on that right now
 

barker1964

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Update..... The plot thickens he defriended me on Facebook(like if that chnges my life) He also blocked his pictures from public viewing and he has been on Dominican Cupid in recent months I'm going to lay a trap for that Idiot thanks to friends in New York... Will keep you posted and the main picture on Facebook is some woman with his kids I wonde how he explained that one to her.
 

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Update..... The plot thickens he defriended me on Facebook(like if that chnges my life) He also blocked his pictures from public viewing and he has been on Dominican Cupid in recent months I'm going to lay a trap for that Idiot thanks to friends in New York... Will keep you posted and the main picture on Facebook is some woman with his kids I wonde how he explained that one to her.

Hmmmmmm, this is just to create some more posts!!!!!!!!!!!!!! But HEY, congratulations, it WORKED. We are all fallin for it.!
 

AnnaC

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Update..... The plot thickens he defriended me on Facebook(like if that chnges my life) He also blocked his pictures from public viewing and he has been on Dominican Cupid in recent months I'm going to lay a trap for that Idiot thanks to friends in New York... Will keep you posted and the main picture on Facebook is some woman with his kids I wonde how he explained that one to her.

Funny Friday is over!
 

barker1964

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So how do you find yourself embroiled?


If you took the time to read the first post I am a man asking the advice of women on how to best help a female friend and so far only one responce is the best fit create a fake Dominican Cupid and contact him. As a man we think different from women I needed their help and I recieved a lot of PM's with really good advice. I will help my friend dont want to see her fail if she was single I would say f**k but with kids ivolved Ifeel it's my duty as ahuman being to help.
 

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If yo took the time to read the first post I am a man asking the advice of women on how to best help a female friend and so far only one responce is the best fit create a fake Dominican Cupid and contact him. As a man we think different from women I needed their help and I recieved a lot of PM's with really good advice. I will help my friend dont want to see her fail if she was single I would say f**k but with kids ivolved Ifeel it's my duty as ahuman being to help.

Wow, i wish u were my FRIEND!!!!!!!!
 
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If yo took the time to read the first post I am a man asking the advice of women on how to best help a female friend and so far only one responce is the best fit create a fake Dominican Cupid and contact him. As a man we think different from women I needed their help and I recieved a lot of PM's with really good advice. I will help my friend dont want to see her fail if she was single I would say f**k but with kids ivolved Ifeel it's my duty as ahuman being to help.

You're not making sense.

Define "help".

Help her learn to think for herself?

Help her land a Dominican with grooming tips?

Help her marry the Dominican?

Help her avoid marrying the Dominican?

You're all over the map. And you still haven't explained how you're involved.
 

barker1964

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You're not making sense.

Define "help".

Help her learn to think for herself?

Help her land a Dominican with grooming tips?

Help her marry the Dominican?

Help her avoid marrying the Dominican?

You're all over the map. And you still haven't explained how you're involved.


"D" all the above so she can make a informed decision.
 

AnnaC

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"D" all the above so she can make a informed decision.


If she really is a member she should have enough info by now if she wants it. Playing games by trapping him etc is a waste of your time and energy. She will do what she wants anyway.
 
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You're being less than forthright. If you're trying to get her away from the situation why did you request beauty tips to help her "land" the guy?
 

Big Dan

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Tell her to purchase a lie detector's test on Ebay. they're not too expensive and it will come in handy after he has drank a bottle of rum and is lying in bed, nearly passed out. at this point, hook him up to the lie detectors test quickly--make haste--and go to work with your questions. you got to catch him with his pants down to get to the truth. I'm dominican...i know. I'm also a pediatrician.

Frank

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keepcoming

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I would say if she is a member and sees that you have "befriended" him that she may unbefriend (not sure if this is a word..lol) you. Just my opinion but your getting way too involved in this. Are you going to do this on every guy she meets or wants to meet? I understand trying to be a friend and offering a few suggestions but that is between you and her not a public forum. I mean the way you are describing her is rather demeaning in a sense. If this was me that you were "trying to help" our friendship would have ended after your first post...I am just saying..
 
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