Advise needed to help a friend

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DRsantos

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Please People , PLEASE ignore this Barker guy with his fake account asking fake questions.. He just here to make you guys bark to his fake thread. I would say , if i was a mODERATOR, let's close this rubbish thread...
 

Bronxboy

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Please People , PLEASE ignore this Barker guy with his fake account asking fake questions.. He just here to make you guys bark to his fake thread. I would say , if i was a mODERATOR, let's close this rubbish thread...

Cant close every thread.

Let's see where this is going.
 

DRsantos

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Cant close every thread.

Let's see where this is going.


Like you can't see where this is going, comeon please.... Don't you think that he has a fake account... Bronx boy , i agree with u on alot of things but on this one i have my doubts... But on the other hand you're right, i'm curious aswell to see how he's going to talk(rat) his ass out of this mess he made......
 

barker1964

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Like you can't see where this is going, comeon please.... Don't you think that he has a fake account... Bronx boy , i agree with u on alot of things but on this one i have my doubts... But on the other hand you're right, i'm curious aswell to see how he's going to talk(rat) his ass out of this mess he made......

Fake account? please check when I joined and there are alot of people here that I have met from this site over the years. You just joined maybe your account is fake I have been here since 2009.
 

barker1964

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Like you can't see where this is going, comeon please.... Don't you think that he has a fake account... Bronx boy , i agree with u on alot of things but on this one i have my doubts... But on the other hand you're right, i'm curious aswell to see how he's going to talk(rat) his ass out of this mess he made......

If you don't like a thread don't read it. Just like if you don't like something on TV change the channel. They are topics here that I don't like, but I will never say it's a fake account. I just don't read it.
 

Bronxboy

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If you don't like a thread don't read it. Just like if you don't like something on TV change the channel. They are topics here that I don't like, but I will never say it's a fake account. I just don't read it.

Any updates?
 

DRsantos

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Fake account? please check when I joined and there are alot of people here that I have met from this site over the years. You just joined maybe your account is fake I have been here since 2009.


Wow Barker , yes you're right, my acoount is fake, you're so right.. i don't want to use bad words, but prob this post is just to generate more posts right....hahahhahahahah.
 

dv8

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This is too much. I have to come back tonight (no internet yet at my house).
My son is with me jodiendome la vida so I just came quickly to check email. I can't even read the whole thing, but
?'ll be back (in my Arnold Swartzneggar voice)
SHALENA

shalena, i need to say this to keep you going :)
some suggested that a "friend" in this thread could be YOU!

now, go and get 'em, gurl!

:) :) :)
 

sayanora

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Have your friend come to this website and read the posts that the members here usually put up.. Then ask her .. "DO YOU WANT TO END UP LIKE THAT?".
 

barker1964

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Have your friend come to this website and read the posts that the members here usually put up.. Then ask her .. "DO YOU WANT TO END UP LIKE THAT?".

SHe is so blinded but "LOVE" I dont know what to do.I have laid a trap and I will keep you updated.
 

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SHe is so blinded but "LOVE" I dont know what to do.I have laid a trap and I will keep you updated.

Bro, I don't know if this is true or just a prank. But if it's true, let me tell you I went through the same thing a few months ago. A foreign female friend was enchanted by some sanky wannabe right here in SD. I told her once, or maybe twice, what she was getting into. She thought I had romantic interest in her and was just jealous, mind you. After I tried all arguments to no avail, I just sit down to enjoy the show knowing there was nothing else I could do for her. It is always interesting to watch a sanky in action. Plenty of moves and lines to be learned from them, haha. When everything is over, I'll help her pick up the pieces. That's what friends do. They give advise and stick around when everything falls apart in spite of their good advise. They don't trick or laid traps.
 

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[,QUOTE]Where in the US does does your friend live ? There are some fine a$$ dominican men here :bunny:[/QUOTE]

I want to meet one :cheeky:
 

paintedlbird7

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Bro, I don't know if this is true or just a prank. But if it's true, let me tell you I went through the same thing a few months ago. A foreign female friend was enchanted by some sanky wannabe right here in SD. I told her once, or maybe twice, what she was getting into. She thought I had romantic interest in her and was just jealous, mind you. After I tried all arguments to no avail, I just sit down to enjoy the show knowing there was nothing else I could do for her. It is always interesting to watch a sanky in action. Plenty of moves and lines to be learned from them, haha. When everything is over, I'll help her pick up the pieces. That's what friends do. They give advise and stick around when everything falls apart in spite of their good advise. They don't trick or laid traps.

I agree, he can make traps but she's going to do what she wants. You said she's never been married? Maybe she wants a family life for herself & kids. Though, I agree it's way too fast for her to marry him, being that she met him online & this will be their first time meeting. I tell you, when first meet there maybe sparks flying & there's chemistry, although that's just the honeymoon stage & of course anything you say will go through one ear & out the other! Maybe she's the type of person who does things spontaneously, in an instance... But for someone who's never married ... Hmmmmm. Let me tell you my experience, when I first met my online boyfriend in person, we had talked about a future together at first he mentioned living in NY (I don't know NY) & I told him I'd like to live with him in the DR if things get serious.. Well, the point is that we didn't talk much about the subject of marriage. When I went to the DR, god, when I met his family, all his family asked me if we are getting married .... EVEN his cousin from NY asked me! I told them that it's too soon to know & that we are just getting to know each other. The half sister said that if I love him, that if I loved him that I should know. So then I asked her how long has she been with her fiance? She says, "Two years. Since, he left to NY.". I said, "Ooooooohhhhhhh." But what scared me was his aunt. She went to the house yelling (well, not yelling, that's her talking). She went to talk to me & insisted & demanded that we marry!. She actually went twice to "talk" to me. The second time she would go off if anyone commented anything so I just let her talk, hoping she would leave soon. She was even putting the date of our proposed marriage. Mind you, my bf was at work at the time she visited. She was saying a lot of crazy **** like the woman there are "rapidas" & hold on to your man or you will loose him and even if I don't marry, his mother in NY will do a negocio for someone to bring him there & then I would never see him again. Wow. Like I said, me & my bf didn't talk marriage so it was annoying that ppl would ask if we're getting married. Hell, my cunada later says how she & the half brother are not married & how his family doesn't pressure them to get married!. Anyways, that was crazy. Advice as I was told over there, nothing good comes out of something done pressured, in a rush, without given good thought.. Sorry if I told too much of my story.. Your story reminded me of it.
 
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bizzyboneizo

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love is something else you would do some dumb things when you are in love. i almost made a mistake when i tryed to start a relationship with a girl in dr and wanted to get married and found out she had a guy in ny waiting but i learned and the girl im talking to now found me unlike me finding that wrong girl but i talked to her and said lets go to the visa office and see what we can do to get you into new york and every time it slips her mind to go and check it out with me because shes not like the other girls that want to head to the bronx and leave me behind shes a excellent girl. my advise for the female is to just go to dr and let the right guy find her then feel him out
 

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I was just reading over this thread and could not help but notice that it could easily be the transcript from some trashy daytime talk show like Springer or Montel or whatever is popular these days.
 

drloca

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Any updates? Has it really taken this long to get plucked?? Wife is dead....thats a new one for the books, wonder how much they paid for the death certificate. Unless they exhume her corpse (with positive DNA analysis), she is alive and kicking on his FB page, and elsewhere.

Seriously, you know ALL the answers barker1964, why do you have to validate what you already know, the writing is on the wall.
If nothing else, your "friends" kids deserve better, make the judgement call with them in mind.
 

barker1964

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Sorry have not been around been dealing with a couple of deaths in the family. Some of you know what's been going on. The last one was two weeks ago I lost a friend that was like loosing a brother. Still hard to believe he is gone. As for my friend she left him he did get her for some money but a family member told her that his wife really did pass away but that he had another woman and he was just visa shopping. I want to wish everyone Happy Holidays please be safe hold on to you families and let them know how much you love them....Tomorrow is promised to no one.
 
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