Bro, I don't know if this is true or just a prank. But if it's true, let me tell you I went through the same thing a few months ago. A foreign female friend was enchanted by some sanky wannabe right here in SD. I told her once, or maybe twice, what she was getting into. She thought I had romantic interest in her and was just jealous, mind you. After I tried all arguments to no avail, I just sit down to enjoy the show knowing there was nothing else I could do for her. It is always interesting to watch a sanky in action. Plenty of moves and lines to be learned from them, haha. When everything is over, I'll help her pick up the pieces. That's what friends do. They give advise and stick around when everything falls apart in spite of their good advise. They don't trick or laid traps.
I agree, he can make traps but she's going to do what she wants. You said she's never been married? Maybe she wants a family life for herself & kids. Though, I agree it's way too fast for her to marry him, being that she met him online & this will be their first time meeting. I tell you, when first meet there maybe sparks flying & there's chemistry, although that's just the honeymoon stage & of course anything you say will go through one ear & out the other! Maybe she's the type of person who does things spontaneously, in an instance... But for someone who's never married ... Hmmmmm. Let me tell you my experience, when I first met my online boyfriend in person, we had talked about a future together at first he mentioned living in NY (I don't know NY) & I told him I'd like to live with him in the DR if things get serious.. Well, the point is that we didn't talk much about the subject of marriage. When I went to the DR, god, when I met his family, all his family asked me if we are getting married .... EVEN his cousin from NY asked me! I told them that it's too soon to know & that we are just getting to know each other. The half sister said that if I love him, that if I loved him that I should know. So then I asked her how long has she been with her fiance? She says, "Two years. Since, he left to NY.". I said, "Ooooooohhhhhhh." But what scared me was his aunt. She went to the house yelling (well, not yelling, that's her talking). She went to talk to me & insisted & demanded that we marry!. She actually went twice to "talk" to me. The second time she would go off if anyone commented anything so I just let her talk, hoping she would leave soon. She was even putting the date of our proposed marriage. Mind you, my bf was at work at the time she visited. She was saying a lot of crazy **** like the woman there are "rapidas" & hold on to your man or you will loose him and even if I don't marry, his mother in NY will do a negocio for someone to bring him there & then I would never see him again. Wow. Like I said, me & my bf didn't talk marriage so it was annoying that ppl would ask if we're getting married. Hell, my cunada later says how she & the half brother are not married & how his family doesn't pressure them to get married!. Anyways, that was crazy. Advice as I was told over there, nothing good comes out of something done pressured, in a rush, without given good thought.. Sorry if I told too much of my story.. Your story reminded me of it.