Am I being used by Dominican girlfriend?

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waytogo

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You people just don't read...yes I met her and never been to dr..what it's impossible for her to ccome here?

Stop arguing
, it's getting you nowhere......move on with your life and hopefully things will work out.

B in Santiago
 

keepcoming

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The fantasy your hearing over the phone and internet may just be a fantasy. Live in reality. I assume if she has "come and met you and your family" that she has a visa?? Yes where is the money coming from? What do you know about her family and where do they get their money from? Before you accept anymore $$ I would find these things out.
 

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Don't try to be coy Roy
Just let her go Joe
Say good by Sly
Adios me amore
No yo regresso
Viva La Vegas????
 

Celt202

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jackichan

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All DR chicas want to have gringo kids with blue eyes,, i'm black n i attract very little attention.. and i'm not POOR!!!
 

Criss Colon

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It's Sunday,He will Be Back On A Locked Ward Soon!

I know his excuse for posting on DR1,"He's Nuts"!
The rest of you should be ashamed of yourselves !
CC
In a "Dorm Room" somewhere,a bunch of girls are laughing their tight little A$$es off!
I just hope they save me the "pieces"!
 

young seniors

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So I met this Dominican girl online about a year ago. We started as friends for a long ttime just chatting at night for about 2-3 months..then we started liking each other and taking a lot more..after a few more months of talking and wanting a realationship she came to my to visit family and I met her..and we met 2 other times after that when she came tto visit...at one point we were
talking every night ffor like 5-6 hours on webcam..I rreally do love her but sometimes I find it hard to belive that's it's real..she is 26 and I just turned 21..I. Want to know if she possible is using
me for something else..I know its not money cuz I always tell her I don't have much and she even sent me money a few times..(100$) at a time..she works at a bank
And says her father pays her rent for her and she just has to pay her phone and cable...she is a really amazing person and beautiful... I never went to dr to see her and she is always asking and begging me to.she says she really loves me and all that..but the reason i have my doubts is because I met her online and she told me she lived in ny..then when we got serious and she wanted to meet mme she told me she been living in dr..so that always had me wondering...and also even tho we talk Everynignt for hours, we oonly met 3 times I'm suppose to go to dr to see her in a few weeks..Because she says she can't keep waiting for me if I'm not
gonna come..ok well I am going but she asked me if I can try to have a baby with her if I'm ready..she said she really wants one if im ready...that's where I wonder can she be using me even tho she knows I have no money he tells me how much she loves me every dday but help me!
is there something else that she wants?

Wow........you have seen her at least 3 times within only a year when she came to visit family. did she visit family in PA. or NYC. Hmmmmmm wondering how she can afford at least 3 trips to US within a year. My antenna are really up now for more than one reason. Maybe thats the cop in me.
 

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At least it is now obvious what Amstelite has to do as a business option.

A coloured contact lens stand outside each maternity ward around the country!

Millionaire within the month!
 

Ken

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I know his excuse for posting on DR1,"He's Nuts"!
The rest of you should be ashamed of yourselves !
CC
In a "Dorm Room" somewhere,a bunch of girls are laughing their tight little A$$es off!
I just hope they save me the "pieces"!

That or a sock puppet.
 

AnnaC

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Anyone notice lately that these stories come out on Sunday. Can`t wait till next Sunday for a new episode. :)
 

Mr.smith

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Thanks for making me laugh. lol.
I'm laughing because I'm in Afghanistan and this dude that works with me is always on tagged and badoo and he think he found a future wife. Your post reminded me of what he's doing. Poor soul. I'll let him learn the hard way and listen to his horror story 6 months later.
 

cobraboy

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Well we have some new twists to a very old story.

If she came to visit you that means she has a visitor visa and no matter how long it's good for IT IS NOT a green card therefore she cannot stay legally in the US. Getting pregnant will not secure her a green card. You will still have to what is called petition for her to immigrate to the US either as a spouse or fiance. The child can not get her there as far as I know unti they are of legal age.

What does she want from you? I have no idea but I suggest you go visit her in the DR. Make sure you visit her at her bank while she is working. Meet her family. Does her rich daddy live in the DR?

Something isn't adding up and it's up to you to find that out. What city/town in DR does she live?
Good post.

I'd like to add that IF she applies for a residence visa the tourist visa goes away...
 
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