Ok after doing a little research, it may not be that easy to set up a firestick to connect to your own vpn.. apparently firesticks are not as advanced as other android tv devices and do not include the ability to configure your own connection to your own server.. (They probably would, but amazon takes a lot of android functionality out of a firestick to limit the things people can do with it) so, you would need to subscribe to a pay vpn service and install the vpn app they provide for firesticks. sorry about that.