black clouds of the mind............
me too like c.colon have fought the demon that is clinical depression more than once in my life.
with me it was origionally brought on severley by a very traumatic event as a teenager.
i never had or recieved the "correct" counceling for this illness even though i was living through thelions share of it in europe.
out side of a big city and also at times within a city,the 'correct"counceling just cannot be found.
i went to see some national health physchiatrists (2)and they were useless i have to say.
i was on anti depressents,they helped for a while though i did suffer the side affects of a big gain in weight,night mares(terrifing ones,which i just learned to live with,EVERY night) and after my first visit to the shrink wher in my opinion all she did was ask me a bunch of inane questions.the majorety of which seemed to lean towards trying to find if i had been sexually abused as a child(which i was not,well apart from my encounters with the 5 fingered widow
at the end of the session,not once did she try to offer me any adviseon how to beat it or even ask me what 'i" thought sparked it.
it was real 'supermarket'physicatiry.
and i got NOTHING out of it.
my parting question was,(with both of us standing up to leave)was "well what do you suggest i do?".to which she replied,"get a life!!!".
this is why in my family we kind of shun these 'SO CALLED PROFFESSIONALS".
and find a good talk with a family member or a pair of ears from a concerned friend helps more than any of these guys who are getting paid to 'help"you.
i have had a nbr of friends/accuantinces who have taken their lives as they just couldent see any light at the end of the tunnel.
again imo,lonlieness is the biggest killer of all amongst ANY age group.
thats why i give and still to this day need the moral support of family or a genuine good friend."man was not ment to be alone".
and although,after the fact,it can seem a little........hurtfull???...for want of a better word to speculate why a human being makes this FINAL choice,MY hunch is that the majorety who do,feel terribly,terribly lonely and that nobody will miss them and life alone just aint worth living.
hence,if they want it i ALLWAYS have time for a word with anybody i encounter.as my dear old mother says,"you never really know whats going on in a persons head".and more so if you never take the time to ask!
may God rest the souls of all those who have taken this very sad and LONELY way out.R.I.P.all.............