Are DR1ers perverts or is love blind to age difference?

What is the age difference between you and your spouse?

  • Up to 10 years

    Votes: 40 56.3%
  • Up to 20 years

    Votes: 17 23.9%
  • Up to 30 years

    Votes: 6 8.5%
  • Up to 40 years

    Votes: 5 7.0%
  • Up to 50 years

    Votes: 1 1.4%
  • More than 50 years

    Votes: 2 2.8%

  • Total voters
    71
  • Poll closed .
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GringoCArlos

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Anna, I was NOT directing my comment to NALs personally.

I was directing it in a general sense. If DR1 (or NALs) wants to ask a poll question to find out the age difference between spouses , of the people who read DR1, that's fine. But when an editorial question is added AHEAD of the actual poll, that sux.

I'll bet that the Widow Anna Nicole Smith's husband is STILL smiling in his grave, and she has the right to smile as well. Whose friggin business is it what any age difference is, or was?

As a moderator, why the heck aren't you busy defending your readership against idiotically worded questions, or reviewing them BEFORE they get posted, instead of defending THAT?
 

texasgal

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I'm 22 years older than my Dominican husband. We've been together five years this month and married 18 months. We didn't marry earlier because I was having a hard time getting out of my first marriage to a man 1 year older than me. Our marriage is work sometimes, but when we play (wink wink), we play hard. I think a number is just that when both of you know what you want out of life.
Sheri
 

Larry

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Who read the news article the other day on underage sex in the boarder region where it stated that a high percentage of girls has their first sexual encounters around 10 years old among other different stats?

I dont see anyone giving a chit about that but we all want to give our opinions on if someone is a pervert if he is 50 and his girlfreind is 20.

Nals, you are stupid for giving this thread the title you did and anyone who takes the time to rant about how they feel a grown man or woman is a pervert if they have a relationship with an adult member of the opposite sex who is significantly younger is an ass. Mind your own buisness and find something important to talk about.

By the way, I am only 35 so stop making assumptions...

Larry
 

Don Juan

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Dec 5, 2003
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Perverts?

Are DR1'rs perverts? What kind of intrusive, invasive, meddling question is that? And what business is it what two (or more) consenting adult perverts do in the privacy of their own homes, hotel, the bushes, in SUV's be to you and the rest of posters in this really stupid thread?

What do you, Nals & accomplices, gain by asking a very personal question that nobody rational enough will answer truthfully?

Methinks you et,al, are the real perverts for wanting to know what goes on in the lives of folks who happen to be somewhat different in age, race, status and what-have-you.... You have gone over the line this time, you perverts!!
 

Mirador

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Are DR1'rs perverts? What kind of intrusive, invasive, meddling question is that? And what business is it what two (or more) consenting adult perverts do in the privacy of their own homes, hotel, the bushes, in SUV's be to you and the rest of posters in this really stupid thread?

What do you, Nals & accomplices, gain by asking a very personal question that nobody rational enough will answer truthfully?

Methinks you et,al, are the real perverts for wanting to know what goes on in the lives of folks who happen to be somewhat different in age, race, status and what-have-you.... You have gone over the line this time, you perverts!!

"age, race, status and what-have-you..."? "privacy of their own homes")?.... what's there to hide? and it's all a public affair anyways. And gossip is a favorite DR pastime, and as the saying goes, "Como quiera dicen". My mother recounts with obvious glee, how when recently married to my father, acquaintances and not-so-acquaintances would confuse each others spouse as her 'father' or his 'daughter'. They are still alive, and will be celebrating their 65th marriage aniversary soon. My own current wife? wer'e going on our eighth year of marriage now, notwithstanding our 37 year age difference.

Mirador
 
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Papparazzi polls

I'm new to this forum, and this is my opinion.

I found this forum to be very professional, with great information value, well written posts and very good (for the most part) moderators.

This new poll, to me, falls into the "sensationalism" and "gossip" columns that you would find in many of the cheap tabloids.

But, of course, that's only my opinion, and I would never be against something that perhaps, most of the members want to read and or debate.

That's something for the posting member to decide.

Rafael Rothschild
 

vince1956

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Voters Where Are You

:bunny: Only 52 votes yes 811 views and only 31 replies dont be shy vote now before it get closed:bunny: vote now
 

NALs

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:bunny: Only 52 votes yes 811 views and only 31 replies dont be shy vote now before it get closed:bunny: vote now
Vince1956, don't dissapoint yourself.

This is actually a very successful poll, as far a votes are concerned. 52 votes in a poll that is barely 2 days old is quite something. Sometimes it could take upwards of 3 to 4 days to get that many votes and other times it may not even reach the 30s, let alone 52 votes!

The views could represent multiple views from same members, it's certainly not the absolute number of DR1ers who have visited this thread.

The replies are quite good so far, a few off topic and a few criticisms, but all in all good replies.

Notice, the criticism tend to not be about the poll per se, but rather the first part of the title. Obviously, there is a single word that strucks many peoples nerves.

Peoples nerves are never "struck" when unless they feel victimized or criticized, and for that we can only guess why some people choose to focus on the smaller first part of the title and not so much on the much longer and obvious second part of the title.

Oh well! :ermm:

-NALs :glasses:
 

Lambada

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I'm still looking for the box that says "pervert".

:laugh: :laugh: Well I thought it was funny............betcha didn't think you'd get a straight response.............

And Nals, I will vote even though you didn't answer my question as to whether my status precludes me.

All the fuss is just sooo hilarious. Next question should be, can these relationships work when the Dominican half of the pair doesn't think age difference matters much and the non-Dominican half is........well.........touchy. ;)
 

Mirador

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Robert, where are you?

....Peoples nerves are never "struck" when unless they feel victimized or criticized, and for that we can only guess why some people choose to focus on the smaller first part of the title and not so much on the much longer and obvious second part of the title.

Oh well! :ermm:

-NALs :glasses:

NALs, there are those among us who believe we have an inherent (civil) right to not being offended, even metaphorically. I wonder why our dearly beloved Forum owner, Robert, has not already intervened and closed down this thread/poll, in behalf of those fragile DR1 members who's feeling you may be potentially hurting...

Mirador
 

vince1956

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Should be in the joke bin but it had to go on here

A man 80 years of age married a young lady. A year later he carried her to the hospital, and she had a baby. The nurse said to the man at your age how do you do that? The man said you just have to keep the motor running. Another year passes, and the man carries her back to the hospital, another baby. The same nurse said to the man you are something else, how do you do that? He said I told you that you just have to keep the motor running. Another year and back to the hospital for another baby. The same nurse said you are unbelieveable how do you do that. He said you got to keep the motor running. She said you better change oil, because this one came out black
 

GringoCArlos

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Don't worry Mirador, nobody's hurting my feelings. I just have very low axxhole tolerance.

Besides, who would want to bring hamburger to a steakhouse?
 
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