Oh mannnn, you cheated on your partner with a sankie??? Ouch, that must hurt. I'm not gonna tell you you are a fool, 'cause you admit that yourself, it was very foolish. First off, I noticed that you said you thought "allllll men loved blondes". Hmm, what I think is, sankies DONT care what you look like, in the case of your friends you were the one who fell victim. It has nothing to do with your age, your skin colour, your hair colour or the fact that you're "extremely pretty". Its good that you posted it though because it can be an example to other people. I dont really know what else I should say as other people have been quite harsh. Yes...you wasted the money and yes, you could have given it to poor children instead of spending it on a man. At the end of the day, this is a story like hundreds of others we have read, at least now you know, fact is though, women will read this and they will NOT learn their lesson because the sankies can be quite deadly, they will get what they want. When a woman meets a sankie, they will always say "he's different, he's not a sankie". In the end, they always find out. Good luck, its obvious that after experiencing it once, you wont have to again.