I want to get a divorce. I live in NYC. I was married over 15 years ago to a man who abandoned me 3 months after we were married. He was accused of a criminal act and was either deported or left NYC to go back to DR. I have not had any contact with him. I tried to get a divorce here in NYC but was told I need to find him. I tried to do an uncontested divorce due to abandonment but it also stated I needed to know where he is and that he needed to live here in NYC. So I thought that I could just go to DR and get the divorce over there. I don't know what to do.. I am not even sure where this man is. I looked him up on facebook and found one profile for him, I sent him a friend request and a private message telling him I wanted a divorce. He never responded. That was a few years back.
I have family in DR and I am willing to go to DR for a few weeks to try to get this resolved, but I'm not sure what to do. Yes, I am a citizen of NYC and no he was not. Before anyone starts with the smart remarks, it is what it is I made a mistake when I was younger and married someone I didn't even know and I understand that. I just want a divorce so I can move on with my life.
I have family in DR and I am willing to go to DR for a few weeks to try to get this resolved, but I'm not sure what to do. Yes, I am a citizen of NYC and no he was not. Before anyone starts with the smart remarks, it is what it is I made a mistake when I was younger and married someone I didn't even know and I understand that. I just want a divorce so I can move on with my life.