I am referring to use of certain terms like cuera and the ubiquitous chica which I find are used as pejoratives. So much of the conversation regarding dominican women wouldn't be tolerated among polite company outside this forum. The assumption that Women are shallow and exist for the plessure of men. In this case mostly foreigners. I engage in self censorship regarding forum guidelines. should there be a discussion of how mostly men here refer to women? Would such language be acceptable if the object of discussion was your daughter?
If this thread is inappropriate a mod is welcome to close it right away.
You may be right, but in the defense of SOME:
a. Polite company outside of this forum wouldnt know how the women behave to know it if it is true or not. They can be offended but being offended while discussing the truth isnt as heinous, to me, as being offended while lying out the side of your face.
b. Excepting any foreign man exploiting the women here doesnt mean that the local men dont do it and that they dont it any worse(and definitely NOT any better). Everyone here knows of a woman who gave a dude babies by the dozen only to be dumped and then this guy may not even contribute to their upbringing. Or the frequent reports of guys waling on their women every weekend. Or the guy who spent his whole check in one weekend getting drunk. Or for that matter the women he gave money to who wasted the money getting her hair done, her nails done and some shoes to wear to a place she doesnt have money to ENTER, while never buying any food for her home and children. Or the guy who kills his old love-interest because she dumped him for a "more prosperous" person. I have never heard of a foreign dude say "I put my foot in her arse because she didnt [do this or that]." We, usually, just decide to dump the babe for wasting our time(and money).
c. If the perception is that the women are shallow, my question to you is how much of their own behavior has lead many of the posters to believe this? Also with the existence solely for the pleasure of men, I dont think many of these women(and I am comfortable saying many, defining this as a bit more than the mere majority(IOW, way greater than 51% of the general female populace) have anything to offer besides sexual gratitudes.
d. If a "chica" is a "cuera" then there isnt much you can do to change that. She made that decision. It is the same as if I came outside in a seer-sucker suit and big yellow clown shoes. This was a decision I made to wear this attire.
e. I feel you are going on in some "exploitative patriarchy" campaign. I disagree, wholeheartedly. Almost everyones biases are based on actual interaction with the women here so in all honesty and due respect many of their perceptions are accurate.