Dominican women vs puerto rican women for black men

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RGVgal

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my buddy is a highly educated, well established, classy individual, from New Jersey .( please, fellas, don't tell me that he can be both classy, and from New Jersey, at the same time).he has been coming to this country for 15 years and has never had even one upscale Dominican give him the time of day. he is young, fit, and by no means ugly. then again, a woman would be in a better position than i to decide that one. he speaks fluent spanish, and frequents places where the girls spend their own money. my friend owns an upscale club, and, when we go there to have a few drinks with him, he will introduce us to these women. he has invited scores of them to sit at his table, and have a drink. the score...invitations..maybe 50. acceptances .0

Can he pick up upscale girls from NY/NJ at a club? if the answer is no, then he shouldn't expect to pick them up in the DR.
 

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I guess you have never seen las nalgas de una Mandinga in real life Papi , they would make you believe in Brujeria if you didn't :)

OMG. Aida.. Yo soy brujo palero (africano) but i think that with your french accent..and all the rest...is more than plenty.
 

the gorgon

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Can he pick up upscale girls from NY/NJ at a club? if the answer is no, then he shouldn't expect to pick them up in the DR.

why not? do i take your question to mean that upscale girls do not go clubs? i do not seek out girls, as i prefer older women, but i have met many upscale women in NYC clubs. who do you think goes to clubs like the Bottom line( now defunct), 7th Avenue South, and places like those? certainly not the riff raff of society.
 

RGVgal

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why not? do i take your question to mean that upscale girls do not go clubs? i do not seek out girls, as i prefer older women, but i have met many upscale women in NYC clubs. who do you think goes to clubs like the Bottom line( now defunct), 7th Avenue South, and places like those? certainly not the riff raff of society.

I meant, do girls in the clubs in NY/NJ give him the time of day? If not, it may be because he is ugly, boring, doesn't know how to talk to women, full of himself, or a host of other things instead of just because he is black.
 

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I meant, do girls in the clubs in NY/NJ give him the time of day? If not, it may be because he is ugly, boring, doesn't know how to talk to women, full of himself, or a host of other things instead of just because he is black.[/QUOTE

actually, meeting women is not to be numbered among the things which present him with difficulty. i have seen him date some absolute stunners in the time i have known him.
 
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actually, you misinterpreted my intended caution. he does not have to worry about no stinkin dueno..he has to worry about her!!

It was not my intention to be disrespectful. I hope I can be shown clemency for any perceived transgression. *kinda scared*
 

the gorgon

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It was not my intention to be disrespectful. I hope I can be shown clemency for any perceived transgression. *kinda scared*


no need to be. she is a wonderful spirit. now i am beginning to sound like some fly by night PR man, something she certainly does not need.
 

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my buddy is a highly educated, well established, classy individual, from New Jersey .( please, fellas, don't tell me that he can be both classy, and from New Jersey, at the same time).he has been coming to this country for 15 years and has never had even one upscale Dominican give him the time of day. he is young, fit, and by no means ugly. then again, a woman would be in a better position than i to decide that one. he speaks fluent spanish, and frequents places where the girls spend their own money. my friend owns an upscale club, and, when we go there to have a few drinks with him, he will introduce us to these women. he has invited scores of them to sit at his table, and have a drink. the score...invitations..maybe 50. acceptances .0

LOL! That sounds pathetic and depressing. Affluent Dominicanas in DR are all about social circles just like any well to do woman in any country. You're assessment is flawed by does make for great comedy. Hahahahah!
 
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Black/white. Skinny/fat. Rich/poor. Tall/short. Anything in between. Be a good man. Know who you are and what you want. Be kind but unwavering. Es el trato.

You've not been appreciated or well-received? There's no time to wallow. Keep it moving.
 

JMB773

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LOL! That sounds pathetic and depressing. Affluent Dominicanas in DR are all about social circles just like any well to do woman in any country. You're assessment is flawed by does make for great comedy. Hahahahah!

Is it depressing or a great comedy? You can't have it both ways. Also you are correct affluent people around the world have a very TIGHT circle, and very few people are invited in. On the flipside affluent people also have very DARK secrets.

All of the twisted stuff in the world is born and raised in the affluent communities. Yes I do agree that a family with a 2 million dollar painting on the wall will not be to quick to invite a shoe saleman to dinner.
 

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JMB care to expound on my response rather than just dislike? You're like the black Archie Bunker so I look forward to your "delightful" posts/ responses.
:nervous:


Just saw you posted a response before I did. all i can say is... :confused:
 
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Viajero

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well ive seen a lot of forum talking about the chances for black men in the Dominican republic but sometimes they often end up conflicting where as when you search up puerto rican women it seems that they embrace black culture and men more than Dominican women which seem to follow the trend of lighter skin is better whats your opinion on this subject?
A lot of guys prefer Dominican women because they are 100 times easier and there are a lot of pros and semi pros in the DR so you might want to go that route.
 

the gorgon

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LOL! That sounds pathetic and depressing. Affluent Dominicanas in DR are all about social circles just like any well to do woman in any country. You're assessment is flawed by does make for great comedy. Hahahahah!

when you get through having your belly laugh, you might proceed towards analysis. who said anything about affluent? there is a difference between a normal , middle class person, and an affluent one. i am not talking about some Brugal daughter. i am talking about people who might be , say, a supervisor in a bank, or Claro, or La Sirena. besides, this idea of social circles is overblown, and overrated. i certainly am not rich, and do not come from a rich family, but i once dated the daughter of a guy who owns a fur coat factory in midtown Manhattan. gazillionaire. she offered to pay my tuition to Harvard, if i could get the SAT grades. my mother almost disowned me, reminding me that a real man does not accept money from a woman.
 

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Well Gorgon- your fellow posters just don't get it. Well to do Dominicans are very color oriented and that is reality. I do not find this to be a good Dominican trait but it is reality. I live in the campo but have mingled in those social circles for 20 years. There is NO doubt ! Absolutely no doubt. To answer the question of the OP, the DR is your best bet, as you most assuredly will not be associating with the middle-upper class Dominicans. Forget the PR. K
 

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This has nothing to do with a woman being Dominican. I bet if you dated 3 Italian girls between 27 and 42 they would want to be dined and wined too.
italians, definitely.. but most American women go dutch if they can..serious women now in the middle class of the US expect that they will pretty much forever and always have to provide at least one half.. so that means that if he takes you out for three dinners, you ought to cook for him three times. Of course, I am assume that there is a mutual attraction and dinner is not the price for the evenings; company.
 
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