Female Sex Tourists

[frank12]

Nice work Jelly..... we all see it but its the men that take the heat.

I agree, these women are predators too..... I see no harm in it, and am as ambivalent to it as I am to the male sided predator.
In truth, its a sad case for those concerned........ sadder for the payor than the payee if you ask me - you didn't
Loneliness ain't easy for some.

Read...http://www.nytimes.com/2014/03/09/fashion/What-Lou-Reed-Taught-Me-About-Love-modern-love.html?src=me

A young girl full of uncertainties.......

That my friend, was an amazing, fantastic, article. I read the NYT every single day and i do not know how i missed this article.

Great find!

Frank

 

[william webster]

from the 'Modern Love' column is the Fashion/Styles section
appears every weekend... there is a library available for reading.
All about personal experiences ad relationships

Modern Love - Fashion & Style - The New York Times
Here you go Frankie G... pour yourself a coffee:classic:

 

[pelaut]

The NYT and a few Brazilian novelas, what else could you want to stay informed?

 

[Criss Colon]

gorgons repeated posts about the size of my penis have me wondering about him??????????????????
It's pink, and very small, but it works for me!
IF, I take a "Viagra" first.
Thank you "Pfizer"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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[frank recktenwald]

Here in BC we have 2 French Canadian scare crows walking around all day. They're late forties, early fifties, their hair is messed up from all the bleach they throw on it, always a foam cup with a stiff drink in their hands. Don't know how they keep it in their hands from all the grease they have on their bodies. They look like twins and are identically dressed.
From what I hear from the tigrues is that they have had all the available Dominican and Haitian salamis already and most shy away from them now but off course they'll always find some willing one.

 

[Olly]

Not sure why CJEWELL hasn't posted on the thread ! It is the otherside of HER posts on "White AXX" men in Sosua.

Olly and the Team

 

[bigwhiskey]

Dam I feel used I gave that Canadian lady on the resort a freebie several time's because she wanted some Dark Chocolate she got a great deal,

 

[Harleysrock]

I don't have the heart to tell my friend from Van that she got Sankied in Cancun. She has a smokin body and is hot though but I know he just wanted Citizenship and someone to take care of him.

 

[PaGuyinDr]

Here in BC we have 2 French Canadian scare crows walking around all day. They're late forties, early fifties, their hair is messed up from all the bleach they throw on it, always a foam cup with a stiff drink in their hands. Don't know how they keep it in their hands from all the grease they have on their bodies. They look like twins and are identically dressed.
From what I hear from the tigrues is that they have had all the available Dominican and Haitian salamis already and most shy away from them now but off course they'll always find some willing one.

Please warn us all if you ever hear they are heading to the NC.

 

[Harleysrock]

Please warn us all if you ever hear they are heading to the NC.

Sounds like you won't be able to miss them!!!

 

[frank recktenwald]

You'll see them from a mile away with that bleached hair and greasy bodies, if you're down wind of them you can also smell them and it ain't pleasant. :ermm:

 

[lovemedo]

Meet the middle-aged women who are Britain's female sex tourists

When we picture a sex tourist, we usually think of a middle-aged man. But growing numbers of women are paying for a “holiday romance”.

They are called “bumsters” in Gambia, “Rastitutes” or “beach boys” in the Caribbean and “sanky pankies” in the Dominican Republic. These are the men providing sex in return for money or goods to women who want a holiday “romance”. The men are invariably from impoverished families, have little or no education and are sometimes illiterate.

Over the past decade, I have been researching the increase in female sex tourism in underdeveloped and poorer countries. Most of the women involved are looking for attention and excitement but end up, often without realising it, being one half of a prostitution deal. Although a small number of African-American women travel to the Caribbean for sex with beach boys, most of the women are white, middle-aged or older and come from Europe and North America. They travel alone or with female friends and often have a history of unhappy relationships with men at home.

Barbara is one such woman. In her late fifties and divorced, she travelled to Jamaica for her first holiday alone last winter. She had fantasies about sunbathing on white sand and swimming in a clear blue sea, but no plans for a holiday romance. Her destination was an all-inclusive resort in Negril, on the western tip of Jamaica, one of the biggest destinations for female sex tourism. “I got off the plane at Montego Bay and – boom! – there he was,” she tells me over the phone from her home town of Sheffield. “I have never seen a man as fit as Chris. His locks were down his back and his legs were like a footballer’s. I thought, ‘Why is he looking at me like he fancies me? I’m not his type.’”

Soon Barbara threw aside her inhibitions and realised she could behave in a way she would never dare to at home. “It was like total freedom. Chris was all over me and I couldn’t get enough of that beautiful body. He showered me with compliments about my legs, my hair, how I smelled, everything. He even said he liked my accent.” Barbara’s previous marriage had been abusive and damaging, leaving her feeling “worthless and like no man would ever look at me again. Chris made me feel gorgeous and special straight away.”

Yet this was the beginning of not a holiday romance but a commercial exchange between a relatively rich westerner and an impoverished “beach boy”. It is prostitution but often only the seller, and not the buyer, is aware of that. Barbara only realised Chris viewed her as a sex tourist when one day he told her, “No money, no sex,” after she refused to give him cash for a drug deal. Barbara, like many women who find “romance” in Negril, says she is shunned by men of her own age in the UK, “because they want thinner, younger women and for some reason can get them”.

I made contact with her through a social networking site where I had discovered women exchanging views and details about long distance romances with men in Jamaica. Not one of the women used the phrase “sex tourism” but most of them discussed how they had sent money to their “boyfriends” to pay an urgent debt or to rent accommodation in time for their next visit. None would give me her full name, because their friends and family members are not aware that they have been going abroad for intergenerational sex.

“[Chris] moved into my hotel room with me and we had wild sex every night,” Barbara says. “At first he insisted on paying for everything, but after a couple of days he said he was owed money by a business contact and I had to bankroll him until it came through.”

Barbara is on an administrator’s salary in the UK but one night in her $200 hotel would cost a porter four weeks’ wages. “Chris never got that money he was owed,” she says. “I ended up paying for everything and once, when I refused, he told me he could pick up any white woman he wanted who would be happy to give him money.” Despite this, she remained under the illusion until the end of her holiday that Chris was her boyfriend. She says now: “If he pretended to fancy me when we were together and just slept with me for money, does that make him a prostitute – or just a lying bastard?”

The markets for prostitution have expanded rapidly since poorer regions in the Caribbean, Asia and Africa have become popular with well-off tourists from the west in recent decades. Expressions such as “sexual paradise” and “fantasy Island” are bandied about and these places turn into notorious hot spots for sex tourism. In the Caribbean and Africa, a racist mythology prevails, with jokes about black male sexual prowess and penis size, perpetuated by the beach boys themselves because it’s good business.

The stereotypical image of the sex tourist is a western man who travels to Thailand or the Philippines to pay for sex with young women and children. But in the past three decades the numbers of women travelling primarily for sex with local men is thought to have increased significantly, according to an investigation by Reuters. The practice has become less stigmatised and tour operators even add thinly veiled references to sex tourism for women as a marketing strategy.

It is not just sex the women are seeking, though. Academic researchers often class women such as Barbara as “romance tourists”, as they usually believe the men they meet on holiday are in love with them. Middle-aged and older women with low self-esteem and a history of failed relationships are more likely to fall for the delusion. The most popular depiction of romance tourism is the 1989 film Shirley Valentine, in which the central character travels to a Greek island craving love and attention. Shirley was not a sex tourist; she wanted an emotional attachment.

[for the rest of the story, go to:

New Statesman | Meet the middle-aged women who are Britain's female sex tourists ]

For years i have heard the judgemental drivel emanating from numerous overweight invisible and very middle aged females mouthes; "middle aged men with 18 year old 'girlfriends make me sick"....'its so disgusting oh my god look at him with his fat @ss and hairy back oh my god' 'she just wants him for his money'

I say;'Oh the horror of it all' and i ask ; 'How could a man be interested in a voluptuous 18 year old with curves from here to china?' Well because he is a MAN um duh!!!... and secondly its also none of your business what that middle aged man does.
But let us see what is happening here; women who for years crucified men for their abberant behaviour (apparently!!) are now engaging in the very same activity. Just take a walk down the main road of cabarete and see the fit young men with $50 haircuts , a brand new shirt and pants, and some bling bling ... walking next to a 57 year old wilderbeast. She is feeling hot sexy and in luvvvvvv and very very satisfied as she trots down the pavement beside him( such a naughty beast...which is what he said to her last night). Every night her Dominican male love machine convinces her that it is infact love and not merely a financial transaction........ and she swallows it all up, amongst other things.

I have no problem with her actions i would just hope that women in general finally come to the realisation that (men and women) are quite similiar in this area. We all want to be touched and to touch, to hear the age old phraseology from your lover "you're a god" or "oh my god you are NASTAYYYY.... DONT F@@KING STOP" " yeah , just there....hit it papi" or " Im gonna C@m in your mouth an your gonna like it" etc etc etc or so im lead to believe
For many men post 60 years of age they will never touch the breast of a beautiful woman again..ever!Infact the only breast they will put to their mouth comes in a 3 pack from KFC ($6.98 for those who are interested). Nor will the aging female ever again salivate before the abs of a 25 year old male.

We allll want it....some are able to get it without paying immediately whilst some have to get it by paying immediately. To each and all i say RELAX ITS JUST SEX. All aging neanderthal men and female wilderbeast need to copulate........ it aint so wrong
NOW IF I COULD JUST FIND MY SANKIES NUMBER .....

 

[pauleast]

lovemedo, you hit the G-spot right on with that post

 

[Bronxboy]

NOW IF I COULD JUST FIND MY SANKIES NUMBER .....

hahahahaha

 

[ROLLOUT]

"The SEX is Fantastic Only For Them".
"WTF"?????
Who the hell do you think they want it to be "Fantastic" for?????
When I pay a woman to have sex with me, she is a contract employee.
Do I care if the guy who paints my house has a great time painting it???
NO!
These guys, and girls, provide a service, and the money is their reward, not the sex.
What do most of these black Jamaicans have, other than their "Cocks"??????
Selling "Meat Pies" so to speak!
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"Grey Hair & Gorgonzola" don't forget to invite us to the wedding!!!!!

Sooo, CC, you think that when the Jamaicans gained their independence all the white colonists limped back to the motherland? Lets not forget the Chinese, with their Jamaican dialect, no?

 

[mountainannie]

yeah, what is good for the goose.. etc.. There was a great book on this one How Stella got her groove back.. which was more plausable in that it was a black executive and an aspiring medical student..


There was also a movie made in Las Terreans about this called Vers la Sud which won a couple of awards in Europe Heading South - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

but the sad part is that so many of the women seem to be looking for LOVE.. not just sex..

and then they get this silly romantic thing going along with Wait I have found the prince..

And it turns into .. something a whole lot more subtly distructive than a straight couple of hours transaction.

 

[Criss Colon]

I like "Fast Food", and I like "Fast Sex"!!!!!!!!!
Walk into "Burger King", check out the menu, order what ever you want,pay for it, EAT IT, and walk out!!!!
Walk into a "Casa de Cita",check out the menu,order whatever you want,pay for it, Eat It, and walk out!!!!
"Win/Win"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[greydread]

yeah, what is good for the goose.. etc.. There was a great book on this one How Stella got her groove back.. which was more plausable in that it was a black executive and an aspiring medical student..

That book is listed as a "fictional romance novel". Horsehooey. It was the real life story of the romance between Terry McMillan, the author and her rent-a-dread, turned Husband. I was hoping that she'd write a screenplay for the sequel once the divorce was final where she catches him with his Boyfriend after putting him through school and paying his freight for 6 years.

Well, she wanted a sensitive Guy and they don't come more sensitive than that.

Epilogue for 'Stella' author: a messy divorce - SFGate

There's nothing wrong with a little romance, it heightens the experience and creates fond memories which last a lifetime but without the realization that the clock is ticking from "hello" People often place themselves on unsupportable emotional ground and "goodbye", no matter how sad is a ton better than "have your attorney contact my attorney" after the years pass and you watch your best friend slowly become your worst enemy.

Women have been buying love ever since the 1st Woman who ever realized that she had more money than she needed (think Martha Washington but 2,000 years earlier). This is not new. I laughed out loud when Ms. McMillan went on Oprah talking about how her Husband "duped" her. A middle aged Woman meets, beds and then marries a college age Boy and gets angry with him, that's like sneaking a cookie out of the jar, eating the cookie and then being angry at the jar.

 

[Curacaoleno]

but the sad part is that so many of the women seem to be looking for LOVE.. not just sex..

Looking for love in the wrong places...

Besides why do older, unfit and in most cases people with huge bellies always try to look for love with much younger and much fitter persons who could be their own son or daughter?

I am sure that Jamaica and the Dominican Republic also have middle aged man and woman who are looking for love

 

[greydread]

but the sad part is that so many of the women seem to be looking for LOVE.. not just sex..

Looking for love in the wrong places...

Besides why do older, unfit and in most cases people with huge bellies always try to look for love with much younger and much fitter persons who could be their own son or daughter?

I am sure that Jamaica and the Dominican Republic also have middle aged man and woman who are looking for love

Yep, and they pay for it just like everyone else. Not "Gringo prices" of course.