Yea bro, but you know the deal...if she cant hustle you then she cant be bothered with you. The thing is it is your fault, if you can believe that. You werent interested in marrying her after knowing her for 13 days, so she is saying he is not "serious". Serious is one of those contrarian words in the DR. How serious could you be about locking some woman down whom you have known for less than one month?
I brought a woman a 1800W hair blower and she was pestering me about sending it through some shipping company. I paid $7 for the thing off Ebay. You think I am going to pay $40 to send it? You get it when I come. So I give her the blower when I get there and then after that all you do is get excuses of how come she cant hang out.
But this guy, the OP, wants to go to San Juan and get a girlfriend. He figures because he goes to smaller non tourist town it will be different. It will be the same, slower, but the same. I guarantee 80% of the woman he meets, if not 90% will be expecting to be put on the payroll. And his languages skills arent tight so how is he going to rebutt this "it is the culture here"? And then at the end of the year he will be all remorseful and bitter "All the women there suck!"
I m just saying to him "Watch what they do. Who gives an F what they say?"
I brought a woman a 1800W hair blower and she was pestering me about sending it through some shipping company. I paid $7 for the thing off Ebay. You think I am going to pay $40 to send it? You get it when I come. So I give her the blower when I get there and then after that all you do is get excuses of how come she cant hang out.
But this guy, the OP, wants to go to San Juan and get a girlfriend. He figures because he goes to smaller non tourist town it will be different. It will be the same, slower, but the same. I guarantee 80% of the woman he meets, if not 90% will be expecting to be put on the payroll. And his languages skills arent tight so how is he going to rebutt this "it is the culture here"? And then at the end of the year he will be all remorseful and bitter "All the women there suck!"
I m just saying to him "Watch what they do. Who gives an F what they say?"