You are kidding right. Of course they are not making a good living by American standards but they are doing okay by Dominican standards. They probably own their home although small, they have a large extended family that depend on one another, they have some sort of job, they have food and clothing, they enjoy the festivities of Dominican life. What exactly are they lacking. You seem to imply they are destitute, homeless. What am I missing?
And Bob...that is a lame argument. You are saying that it is okay for mothers to give up five early years with a child for the sake of a possible better life in the future. You are kidding right.
That is a huge problem in the world today. Attention to detail with children is expendible. "Oh they will be fine" "5 years without mom or dad is no problem"
So you leave your daughter with a grandmother. One day the grandmother says to uncle billy....I need to go to the store....and you watch little Angie? Sure uncle billy says. Years later find out uncle billy was molesting little Angie when the old and tired grandmother was not watching.
Everyone in the USA is drunk with the idea that they will have all the riches they desire if they just work a little harder. They buy into the American Dream to the point that they will eat S*$t if they have to. And guess what, these masters of the fantasy have you duped here in the DR also. You will sacrifice your childs early years for a shot at the American Dream. It is a dumb fantasy that few win. It is a lottery. The odds are stacked against you. Put the children first always. Don't gamble with their lives. Even if you have to live an average and sometimes mundane life.
And Bob...that is a lame argument. You are saying that it is okay for mothers to give up five early years with a child for the sake of a possible better life in the future. You are kidding right.
That is a huge problem in the world today. Attention to detail with children is expendible. "Oh they will be fine" "5 years without mom or dad is no problem"
So you leave your daughter with a grandmother. One day the grandmother says to uncle billy....I need to go to the store....and you watch little Angie? Sure uncle billy says. Years later find out uncle billy was molesting little Angie when the old and tired grandmother was not watching.
Everyone in the USA is drunk with the idea that they will have all the riches they desire if they just work a little harder. They buy into the American Dream to the point that they will eat S*$t if they have to. And guess what, these masters of the fantasy have you duped here in the DR also. You will sacrifice your childs early years for a shot at the American Dream. It is a dumb fantasy that few win. It is a lottery. The odds are stacked against you. Put the children first always. Don't gamble with their lives. Even if you have to live an average and sometimes mundane life.