Now for the op, do you shop at lane bryant?
You are being set up for the long game. The "hot girls" you meet up with are hoping to get under your skin and if you don't keep moving you will become the dreaded WU novio. Keep it moving and you will be fine. "Hot girls" or not, if they're out at the clubs looking for gringos to party with instead of at home with their babies you are the target of a hustle. The desperate ones play the short game and the confident ones play the long game....
It's just another working day to them.
My bad, my bad, I just saw it. DUH !
Sunnie are you still around ? By Big, did you mean curvaceous or 300 lbs big ? Help me out here
I don't agree with those that say you deserved it, although I still don't understand how men/women fall so easily....
if she was curvaceous she would have mentioned something along those lines, plus would not have had a problem getting BLACK GUYS back where she is from meet her and "make her feel special". But she came to Bavaro and met one from here who did that.
I dont think its fair to the sankie. He did his role. Bavaro is a boring place. If you arent having sex with something there you are wasting your time. If that guy wasnt around to show her the bone she would have cut her trip short from 2 weeks to 4 days.
This woman is a large type, think BIG MOMMA, TYLER PERRY MADEA. Bigger white women, self explanatory. She may not return to DR, but doesnt matter they do the same thing in Jamaica.
I am more curious as to what lie she told him that made him get the boot. She was buying it for a while but then it imploded. I wanna know what story he told that send her running.
Yep, she describe herself as a big white girl.
fat I guess!!!
You are funny Colonel :cheeky:
She probably found out about the 5 other novias or he simply left her when her wallet was empty.
I would love to see what HE looks like...
And I dont know if its about weak minds. I think its about letting the genitalia(male/female) do more comprehensive thinking than the brain. And then also letting your ability to be compassionate and empathetic to other peoples misfortune run amuck.
I think the best way to consider MANY interpersonal interactions in this country, sorry to say, is to view everyone and have them view you as a crocodile with a toothache. You can stick your hand in there BUT YOU AINT GETTING IT BACK.
Well I usually stay at the Duque in SD which apparently has a reputation for being where sankies that target male tourist hang out and have some idea of what male sanky looks like... they are almost always lower class, needing a haircut, wifebeater, slim build walking around with flip flops of some sort.
But Shawn, you re drawing straws here because we dont know the kind of women you re talking to when you come. I mean if you are meeting women at the club having a good time and entertaining them for a few more days before you leave. And then when you leave you dont have any contact. YOu may be saving yourself from sanki-time. But then again you may not be making any real contacts when you come either. So your trips are always those of the reluctant tourist.
That's exactly what I do! Whether someone is visiting for a few days or a few weeks, that is not enough time to establish a genuine friendship let alone relationship with someone else. I do not go on vacations to have lasting relationships. I as many, go to interact with locals, go out and meet women and if everything goes to plan back to the hotel. I have no problem in saying that. The reason why I use the word weak minded is because it's more so a flaw in the tourist that the sankies prey on.
I think many people know there are sankies out there and WANT to get taken advantage of in the end. I think lots of men and women go to the carribean and other places to "feel " like they are being loved. They have to know it isn't real but they refuse to believe it. I think people like the idea of going to DR and having a boyfriend or girlfriend that stays with them during their vacation and makes them feel loved. I think a lot of people are lonely out there, come to places like DR where they know they can get false attention and 9 times out of 10 end up getting hurt. I really don't think that we should see many of these people as victims.... Not that I'm not sympathetic more so practical and realistic.
Of course this only applied to sankies but my overall view of when I am on vacation is to form casual relationships; perhaps if I go in sept I would be open to exchanging e-mail to begin with, but if money was ever mentioned or that emergency surgery their brother needs then I would quickly end the correspondence.
Gay sankies ??
Now, Shawn are you trying to tell us these hot women you are "befriending" during your stay are not really who they seem to be ?
Flip-flops during the day, high heels at night, LMAO :cheeky:
Just kidding Shawn...
Anna , I firmly believe, one day, that horse will resurrect, I read it somewhere .... Or, I have nothing better to do
But Anna, wouldn't you agree While there I heard the same old tricks and lines while at the bars and saw through them all. I really think women falls for it more b/c men can have more casual sex however women are more likely to develop a bond... that being said I feel like people "hear" what they want to hear.
I'm sorry tis happened to the OP (What happened to her anyway,) but you learn from these types of experiences. If people are just going down for the sex tourism they should just get what they want without establishing any further type of relationship.. I do know that sankies can be cunning...