hi everybody
Hi everybody,
chrisCCCC no worth answering to this.
lalla and Pip: a bit true. of course it's nicer to read some positiv answers. maybe I don't want to hear negative feetbacks, although they're important too. I mean, critic is always important; if it's constructiv...
forbeca: I don't feel sorry for my boyfriend. maybe he's happier than me, although he has less money. when I was there, I lived in his apartment, I didn't give out much more for food etc. I offered him a shaver for his birthday and some new shoes, he chose. To his parents I brought some chocalates and the money left after the two weeks (what I think was not too much). he never asked me for money or me cooking for him. his friends tell him often that he's not macho enough.
no, I don't have pity with him. When I see children in the streets or those who clean shoes, then I think, my boyfriend is privilidged to have some parents who can offer him a study and apartment in another city. don't know how "rose" is a future as ingeneering; maybe it would be easier for me to find a job than for him. but I would feel pity for him, if he finishes his study, without having worked as engeneer, being in a foreign country - onely for his girlfriend (he never had wanted to leave the dom.rep.; he spends every weekend with his family and not in the city, where he's studying, because even in a foreign town in the same island he feels a stranger...), being in the "last class" as foreigner, maybe not accepted cause of the bad reputation dominicans have here... I think, this would be a big problem for our relationship.
I think, for me it would be easier to acomodate to his country, being accepted as foreigner. I think, for the first time, to get to know each other better, I should spend some months there.
lalla: thanks for your answer. I don't think I'm a ticket out of the DR. he worked as waiter in an all-inclusive-hotel in punta cana for 1.5 years. He told me bout some guys, who were less educated than him, not even good looking, who had lots of foreign girls. they're all abroad now. it would have been easy for my boyfriend to find someone who would have taken him to wherever. also he told me, that I was the onely foreign girl (okey, he could lie...).
rafael: thank you.
hasta pronto.
p.d.: I don't have the garanty that we'll always be happy nor that our last will last for ever. but onely the one who risk can win. the one who never risks, has already lost. I onely know, that I would regret it all my life, if I don't try it and that I would never love that much. if I risk and later on we separate, I've done my best, and would be able again, to start a new relationship, without comparing my partner with my big love.
