I think all women in love are deathly afraid of that test.
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Lovinglife, you are being bombarded with truth bombs. We are not here to criticize or make fun of you, we are here to protect you.
You can't protect people from themselves..............
I sincerely hope that things go well for the OP; but I cannot help but sensing certain hesitation from their posts together with a few red flags... I hope I'm wrong...
Do this.
Eat what he does for a month.
If you can't stomach chicken feet, mangu, chicharrón, or the pathetic excuse for salami all washed down with a warm Malta you won't survive a relationship with him.
Eat what he does for a month.
If you can't stomach chicken feet, mangu, chicharrón, or the pathetic excuse for salami all washed down with a warm Malta you won't survive a relationship with him.
It seems the OP is aware that her boyfriend needs financial help. If she is ok with that then at least she knows that is part of what the relationship will be based on, financial. It will up to her how far she wants to go with that. Just remember that his family will always support him, so do not depend on them to tell you any truths.
It would be terrific if you kept hanging around here and chatting with your new-found friends. You'll learn a lot and there's no telling what can happen.
I'd like to see you stay!
I'm way too old for you, ya little rascal!
He has been telling me the truth so far, its me that hadn’t been believing him and believing people like you guys , that were wrong …saying good men don’t exist in DR. But they do ..all people are not bad . He told me up front what his plan was and he never ever asked for money , it was me giving it ,,,,,because I am a helper , he was embarrassed to accept it and told me so…….he has good morals and is truthful , I never ever caught him in a lie .
but I went too far in accusations before realizing his truth to me ……but the language barrier was an issue causing words to be misinterpreted……it was always an uphill struggle…..and I am not too sure I can tolerate this life indefinitely .
heartbroken 💔
and yes , I can hear it now ……all hearts heal 👍
Haha,,,,, you don’t know my age ……. I won’t tell but you won’t believe…..🫢
I am not a spring chicken,,,,,
as I am new here and I do not know you , may i ask ,are you a DR nationality ? And you can tell me your age …..😌
I do not recall saying good men do not exist in the DR (I married one). However, most of us have been around for a while, heard and seen it. When someone posts about their relationship many times it is because they have doubts or a "gut feeling" something is not right. Too many times we read posts about someone who has met someone, helped them financially, but in the end felt used. You can overcome the language barrier, learn Spanish, or help him learn English. No "relationship" ends because of what others may say about it. It ends because of your own doubt. Curious, when did you last see him in the DR?
It’s different for women in the same situation but the opposing sex . DR women are not the bread winners of the family therefore are not under the same pressures and constraints as their counterparts …….making it more difficult for us women from outside to get an honest man , in general , as this is what most people are saying about DR men.
it’s a different situation from the getoo…….being a man from DR. and the person to support the family….
Yes , I agree , that is not what I meant . And yes in the end it was me myself that had the doubts because of what I was hearing in the public and that the chances are that…….blahhh. Blahhh…
oh ,no doubt it was all on me…….I am not accusing anyone of wrong doing ….
and working those long hours day in and day out …for a DR man working at a resort , it’s very difficult to have conversations under these circumstances , he needs rest and prep continuously for the next hard day…..it’s a very difficult life ….
That is not totally correct, many women are the bread winners of the family in the DR. Many have careers outside the home, they have the same pressures as a man, if not more. You do also know that many women are supporting a home, children, etc... without help from a man, children's father, etc... I am not sure you know the DR so well.