I can't stop laughing at the notion that now we'll all go to Hell if we don't WU hundreds of $$ to any puta who makes up a sob story. This is like some out of control chain email.
Charity begins at home. If you send money to someone in exchange for carnal knowledge..um...what's that called again?
If you wish to be charitable you can start with an orphanage or an education fund or the Church poor box and not expect anything in return. That will more than compensate for not sending your sweetie money for G'pa.
Geez!