Bare with me but I really need to vent. Why ( and yes I could probably answer this myself) is it when you explain to someone what the process is ( paperwork etc...) do they not listen and then come back and blame you because it did not work. Or ( and this is the good one) they will tell you "Juan/Juana" said that you do not need to do that because they did it like this. OMG spent my precious time helping someone do some legal paperwork. Told them exactly where and when it needed to be done. Told them exactly what papers they needed to take with them and what happens I get 50 da*m texts telling me when they went there they could not do the process because the paperwork they had was not the "legal" copy. OMG how times did I tell these people you have to take the originals NOT the fax copy. I know I have lived here a long time and should be used to this but it amazes me everytime. No matter how many times you tell someone or show someone how something should be done its like there is the correct way and then what I call the " Juan/Juana" way. And everytime the "Juan/Juana way wins over the correct way. And then it is my fault. I know why do I bother!!!!!!:tired: Unfortunately this was a member of spouses family can't change my number..lol!!!! Thanks for letting me vent..Have a great day!!!!!