I am Dominican and I have never thought that spouses are provided by God, nor have I ever even heard that in my family!
I believe you. And I'm telling you the truth when I tell you that many do.
I am Dominican and I have never thought that spouses are provided by God, nor have I ever even heard that in my family!
Tu si eres disparatoso!
First, your post reflect massive ignorance on YOUR part in may ways...In the middle of the afternoon I see men everywhere doing nothing, walking around in casual clothes, sitting with some other guys talking and laughing and I'm not talking about a barrio but sectors like Millon, Evaristo Morales.
When I have to go somewhere early in the morning (before 7am) I see the street full of people going to their jobs: 80% women (were are the men?! they appear a few hours later in the streets doing nothing). Besides there are many men having jobs that are completely unproductive: watchmen, messengers....
My homecountry is a small country, having about 16,000,000 habitants and a GNP of USD770 billion. Why does DR that has 10,000,000 habitants only a GNP of USD37 billion. I know I am comparing a wealthy developed country with a country in development, but that s about 5%. Keeping in mind that my country does hardly have any natural resources and DR does.
I'm afraid that what's wrong with the DR has to do a lot with mentality.
So basically both of you should read my post for what it does say and not read a rant against DR. I think I'm one of the few foreigners in this forum bonus not only negative about DR, there are many things that impress me and people that inspire me, and I have expressed that in many posts but it's not all sunshine, there is something seriously wrong with the way the economy is organized that slows economical development down for the long term (notwithstanding current economical growth, once tourism is saturated I would like to see the numbers) and trying to be balanced I'm pointing that out too. The same is valid for Holland, it's a great country on many aspects but don't get me started about everything that's wrong.
My wife's says these Catholic idioms all the time but it's like a reflex action kind of like North Americans saying Sorry, excuse me. As far as fatalistic my wife is anything but. She works hard and is always looking to the future and trys to teach all her students that their future is what they make of it. She has a lot of sucessful former students so perhaps her message gets through. There are plenty of Dominicans that have a plan A, and plan B, and are looking for ways to get ahead. Many are religious and hrd working and the religion is not a deterent.
Says the person that comes from a country with a sh*t load of unhappy people, even when they have it all (or so they think).
Fatalism? DR? Wrong country, culture and people!
DR has not EVER nor will it expect or wait for somebody from the outside to FIX our problems!
We're not Haiti, Iraq, Afghanistan, Cuba, Venezuela, Italy, Spain, Greece, etc...
We are, after all, the ONLY country (since the vatican doesn't count as anything like it) to have the white cross with the bible in the middle of it in the national flag!
We accept other people's religions and don't force ours to them in our country. We are a very welcoming and friendly people that will say good morning to complete strangers in the streets (imagine that!).
We looooooooooooove and respect our elders like polished gold and diamonds.
We don't think that we must work until we hit the late 60's to then retire on our nests, but with a body which life will flicker as a candle on the wind. We work until we satisfy our needs, not our greed.
For foreign people that come from their work till you drop dead rich or die trying first world countries, seeing people that take it easy and roll with the moments is a big shock and resulting mystery!
Here you can be yourself, not matter if you own half the country's riches or only a banana peel to cover your private parts. Share a table with the big man or the poorest folks.
But you can't see that, for that's something you have never had since birth where you came from...
We're a country with marked inequalities, but where people MUST mingle together no matter where their economic status falls in society. Try that in your first world of richness!
The powerless ones are foreigners from their rich first world countries, that see with their eyes what they only know of their world, and see the DR and people like easy fish and complacent to all that goes around.
We're far more than just Presidentes Frias and Merengue...
But that's o.k.! Since you are a foreigner that only knows/understand what you were born into...
Says the person that comes from a country with a sh*t load of unhappy people, even when they have it all (or so they think).
Fatalism? DR? Wrong country, culture and people!
DR has not EVER nor will it expect or wait for somebody from the outside to FIX our problems!
We're not Haiti, Iraq, Afghanistan, Cuba, Venezuela, Italy, Spain, Greece, etc...
We are, after all, the ONLY country (since the vatican doesn't count as anything like it) to have the white cross with the bible in the middle of it in the national flag!
We accept other people's religions and don't force ours to them in our country. We are a very welcoming and friendly people that will say good morning to complete strangers in the streets (imagine that!).
We looooooooooooove and respect our elders like polished gold and diamonds.
We don't think that we must work until we hit the late 60's to then retire on our nests, but with a body which life will flicker as a candle on the wind. We work until we satisfy our needs, not our greed.
For foreign people that come from their work till you drop dead rich or die trying first world countries, seeing people that take it easy and roll with the moments is a big shock and resulting mystery!
Here you can be yourself, not matter if you own half the country's riches or only a banana peel to cover your private parts. Share a table with the big man or the poorest folks.
But you can't see that, for that's something you have never had since birth where you came from...
We're a country with marked inequalities, but where people MUST mingle together no matter where their economic status falls in society. Try that in your first world of richness!
The powerless ones are foreigners from their rich first world countries, that see with their eyes what they only know of their world, and see the DR and people like easy fish and complacent to all that goes around.
We're far more than just Presidentes Frias and Merengue...
But that's o.k.! Since you are a foreigner that only knows/understand what you were born into...
If we're going to persist with the belief system theme, here are my 2 centimos. If religion per se is an obstacle to development, how does that explain religious yet highly developed countries like the US? I think in many cases it is an obstacle, but it's the more about the way religiosity is viewed and expressed. For many in Latin America religious belief is less about a moral framework, and more of a charm against evil/bad luck.
But in any case, I think the factors here go way beyond people's belief system although this does to some extent affect or result from the following - the highly stratified society, the limited legal and ethical options for upward mobility, and the lack of priority given to education both institutionally and culturally.
For many the only perceived route to success/affluence is not a university degree and hard work. They are surrounded by so many people who have studied, work hard and are still in poverty - so crime, corruption, luck (lottery win) or a big break as a ballplayer or musician are what they aspire to. The next best thing would be a government cushy or no-show botella job.
If we're going to persist with the belief system theme, here are my 2 centimos. If religion per se is an obstacle to development, how does that explain religious yet highly developed countries like the US? I think in many cases it is an obstacle, but it's the more about the way religiosity is viewed and expressed. For many in Latin America religious belief is less about a moral framework, and more of a charm against evil/bad luck.
But in any case, I think the factors here go way beyond people's belief system although this does to some extent affect or result from the following - the highly stratified society, the limited legal and ethical options for upward mobility, and the lack of priority given to education both institutionally and culturally.
For many the only perceived route to success/affluence is not a university degree and hard work. They are surrounded by so many people who have studied, work hard and are still in poverty - so crime, corruption, luck (lottery win) or a big break as a ballplayer or musician are what they aspire to. The next best thing would be a government cushy or no-show botella job.
Investiga primero. Tal vez aprendas algo. Luego puedes lanzarme insultos.
i wonder what animated the author to observe that he did.