The people who have to work in santiago and depend on their salary or business are the ones who are suffering the most. No wonder your family is telling you to stay there (usa). Now you have an ideal situation here, you get your money from usa. Now all you have to do is live way below your 1800 dollars / month budget and save some for the rainy days. After making the initial investments, you need little to live here. Do not buy a fancy SUV or a gas guzzler. Gasoline is way more expensive here than in USA. Do not listen to some dominicans who would instantly guide you into buying a SUV and convince you that this is the only type of car you need. Remember, when you are in financial disaster, they will not pay your bills. Mostly when you take dominican advise, especially people from barrios, you normally get a bad advise. The primos and friends most likely give you a bad advise on how to live here. If you want to know how to survive in santiago, ask people who came here from usa and made it, not the locals, because they didn't have to start from the scratch like we did. We had to find out everything, from buying a stove to setting up the satellite system. You need to live away from the barrio because once the people know you are a gringa (speak english) and have all the goodies at home then you may become a target. Do not make friends with people who want to be your friends. The rule of thumb is, make friends with people who don't need your friendship. You may not understand what I am saying now, but it will make sense to you after a few years of living here. Do not just take any electrician or a plumber or a handy man to come and fix things in your house. Remember, they watch and observe what you have at home, then they talk to their primos and sooner or later, your possessions will change hands. The expats or dominicans who have gotten robbed at home are the same people who invite just about anyone home, example: colmado guys to bring in things, cheap barrio girls/hookers, barrio vagabundo guys even handy men from shady backgrounds etc. These people watch and take note. I was shocked to see how much the tigres in the barrios know about other people's business. I stay in capital from monday to frinday and come home to santiago on weekends. I was at the local barber shop and I was shocked to hear the question from the barber's mouth "doctor, usted todavia esta pasando toda la semana en capital y viene aqui solo los fines de semana?". wow. he said "doctor, you are still spending your week in capital and only come home on weekends?"
how did he know that? he just did. He didn't see my car in my driveway on weekdays so he came to this conclusion when he heard from other people that I work in capital now. I told him immediately that I have a guy staying in the back service apartment and its true. We have a guy living on the property whom the owners know and trust. But the point is, the barrio tigres knew about my movements in the weekdays.
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