I missed the part in your original post where you said you are a seasoned traveler. BC or JD would be just fine for you.Thanks guys. sounds like it cant be much worse than playa del carmen in Mexico which i loved. Ill let everyone know how it goes. Just ****in sucks goin on vacation alone. I have this feeling I might get bored in Juan Dolio.
The 2 main restaurants in JD are Guilla's Caf? on Calle Blvd. near Capella and Chocolate Caf? near Costa Caribe. You can get all the info for the area at either one of these local hang outs. Both resorts have clubs also.
If you choose JD it would be cheap enough to take a day or night trip to Boca Chica to check out the scene.
I think that in either location you won't be alone for long.
Keep in mind that most of us giving you advice are a tad over 40. ha ha ha