Omar, to be honest and I may be ignorant but you can be the life saver that a local Dominicana is searching, not searching praying for. This can make you a happy man for a long time. But even the "best" ones are somehow raised to be slick and that blows my mind. The minute they see you're pussy whipped or loose with your cash, you are thru and you'll have a whole village living off you.
This is where I'm gonna get laced into but from my observation of others:
You have to slightly be a bastard, emphasis on slightly, and not fall into the estranjero pendejo category. Challenge her and don't always praise her for every single fuking thing. ALWAYS value yourself more than you value her. Look at her and shake your head regularly when she says or does something offbeat. Cause a lot of these estrajero cats, loose it and make them feel more important than themselves. Anyways, you are grown, you know what I'm saying.
Omar, to be honest and I may be ignorant but you can be the life saver that a local Dominicana is searching, not searching praying for. This can make you a happy man for a long time. But even the "best" ones are somehow raised to be slick and that blows my mind. The minute they see you're pussy whipped or loose with your cash, you are thru and you'll have a whole village living off you.
This is where I'm gonna get laced into but from my observation of others:
You have to slightly be a bastard, emphasis on slightly, and not fall into the estranjero pendejo category. Challenge her and don't always praise her for every single fuking thing. ALWAYS value yourself more than you value her. Look at her and shake your head regularly when she says or does something offbeat. Cause a lot of these estrajero cats, loose it and make them feel more important than themselves. Anyways, you are grown, you know what I'm saying.
I can think of like 8 DR1 posters that fit this LOL!!! If these men wives told them to stop breathing there would be alot of dead expats in DR.
Sorry nine cjp2010 I do not know how I forgot this guy LOL
Whenever me and her get in the subject of her visa, I'll tell her why not just get out there and find a good man in your country. There has to be someone with the qualities you're looking for wanting a woman like you who doesn't live far away from you like I do. Her response is always the same; there aren't any. For that I'll stay by myself. I was alone before I met you, and if it's not you, I don't want anyone else. To which I'll always remind her that this long-distance situation will probably go on for a very long time. I'm not going to marry you just so you can come live with me. You have to get your visa on your own. To which she always either says yes I respect your position on that, or yes I'm working on it.
She's either better than me at lip service or a persistent hopeful.
OK. Let's get back to the topic. These off topic conversations are interesting but not what the thread is for.
My bad as well!!!!!!
Here is a resource that I posted a while back. It may not be completely accurate (eg:not sure of the dates, sources), but at least it gives some ideas to start with.
Comparison with other cities (blank form):
Cost Of Living Comparison
Comparison (filled in) of NYC vs Santo Domingo
Cost Of Living Comparison Between New York, NY, United States And Santo Domingo, Dominican Republic
And this is what that site has for select cities in the DR:
Santo Domingo
Santiago
Jarabacoa
Dominican Republic - Average
Hope it helps.
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Comparing the cost of Dominican Republic to New York is not a lot of help since New York is one of the most expensive states in the United States.
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Based on the expenses I incurred during my visit there back in March, I felt Santo Domingo is just as expensive as New York City.
For most people, what you do as a tourist / on vacation does not match how you would live every day life. If you don't live your whole life in the DR like a tourist then you should find SD to be much cheaper.