that's the way it is, Yeeehhaaaaa.
firstly, as CCCCCC described as it is, you will have the expenses, if you are a ole fart already you will have that for a few years only may be, if you are a youngsetr who never got layed a good bride back home and get m,arried here in youyr 20? you will have it for the next 40 years at least, YOU pay for the family, that's the way it is and no modern Obamacare programs and tax pacts will ever change anything on that.
on the other side, as some already experienced, when you take care of the family(as you anyways have to) then in case of hard times they also will take care of you, a old principle since decades forgotten about back home, as it is more convenient to send the old folks to those prisons for old people where they get a couple meals per week and some tasty meds shots per day so they feel fine til the end of da soon coming day.
but to be part of the family circles you need to play the game right, otherwise you end up as 99% of the gringitos, coming over, leaving everything(they mostly anyways never had a thing there) back home behind, ****ing a good looking minor, give a **** about her family or prior produced kittens, and the day they fall down of a motoco?o or get soime serious health troubles which require someone to take care of them, that day they gonna die as deserved lonely in a public hospital on a bench on da floor there.
what it has to do with the Topic?
hey,
invest your spermas wisely and spend the coming electricity bills fair (without beeing a stupid golden goose), so when coming towards the end of time you will be taken care of appropiately, IF you raised your breed the right way.
Mike