Welcome to living amongst peladores, sad to say it but it is true among poor Dominicans who get used to obtain "help" from their more fortunate friends. Most of the time that "help" that is given ends in the local colmado owner pockets after selling the needed ones a couple of box of beers.
If you have reached the case where people disrespect you as your friend who told you to pay the taxi fare without consulting you before hand, I think is better for you to start dropping those people as your friend and "alejarte un poquito" from them, you may say HI to them if you find them on the streets but that's it. If people start complaining that you have become a "tacania" tell them that you have kids and bills to look after, remember them that the economy situation is really bad and you have to think of yourself and your family first before others.
Exactly. Actually, I am separating myself from these people really quickly. I don't have any more patience....and it's not like I can't help or don't want to. It is the fact that my intelligence is being insulted with lies, and it is becoming a daily problem with certain people.
SHALENA