"We are all adults here."
So now you want to be an adult? After you insult one of the most respected people (expat and otherwise) in Sosua, and then dismisses with a slur a person who disagrees with you, you expect everyone to just cut you some slack?
As far as I'm concerned, you have overplayed your hand far too many times as it is. You're just one more wannabe, who thinks he has have a lock on what is going on in the DR, but, in fact, hasn't got a clue.
You made your bed, I hope you are ready to be comfortable in it.
And I also look forward to meeting you. And don't worry I'm just an old guy who barely gets around.