Re: Can one find true love in Dominica Republic?
Last summer, I met a wonderful guy in DR. I truly believe that he is my soulmate. Despite the limited resources the island has to offer, Juan, my boyfriend has made something of himself. He is a student at the University and is a single father who is caring for his two-year old. He works full time as a teacher. We are in constant communication with each other. Since my first visit, I have been back to the island several times. Realistically, the distance between us is becoming increasingly difficult. We have considered marriage. This is not a man I met a local bar or beach. Rather, he is a family member to a close friend of my brother. The problem with our relationship is that some of my family members have questioned whether his feelings for me are sincere. Some of my family members have told me that, DR men are not attracted to women with darker skin. The comments that have been told to me regarding this issue has really made feel uncomfortable. I have always been proud of my beautiful african features and complexion. My skin color has never been a barrier for me in the states. Furthermore, I don't have problems meeting men. I've often been told, the darker the berry, the sweeter the juice. Juan affectionately calls me his negrita. On the other hand, DR is different from the states. I did witness in the hotel that I often visit, the women with darker skin clean the rooms and the others with lighter skin work at the front desk or in the dinning area. I must add that my family members have not met him. When I'm with him, I have no doubt in my mind that he is in love with me. I, do, however realize that the economy in DR is not conducive for many to live a comfortable life. Should I end the relationship because others think one way, or should I follow my heart and take a chance.
Last summer, I met a wonderful guy in DR. I truly believe that he is my soulmate. Despite the limited resources the island has to offer, Juan, my boyfriend has made something of himself. He is a student at the University and is a single father who is caring for his two-year old. He works full time as a teacher. We are in constant communication with each other. Since my first visit, I have been back to the island several times. Realistically, the distance between us is becoming increasingly difficult. We have considered marriage. This is not a man I met a local bar or beach. Rather, he is a family member to a close friend of my brother. The problem with our relationship is that some of my family members have questioned whether his feelings for me are sincere. Some of my family members have told me that, DR men are not attracted to women with darker skin. The comments that have been told to me regarding this issue has really made feel uncomfortable. I have always been proud of my beautiful african features and complexion. My skin color has never been a barrier for me in the states. Furthermore, I don't have problems meeting men. I've often been told, the darker the berry, the sweeter the juice. Juan affectionately calls me his negrita. On the other hand, DR is different from the states. I did witness in the hotel that I often visit, the women with darker skin clean the rooms and the others with lighter skin work at the front desk or in the dinning area. I must add that my family members have not met him. When I'm with him, I have no doubt in my mind that he is in love with me. I, do, however realize that the economy in DR is not conducive for many to live a comfortable life. Should I end the relationship because others think one way, or should I follow my heart and take a chance.
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