RE: Successful Relationships!!

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whirleybird

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hello

any advice you ahve for me would be wonderful as i am feeling quite alone and lost with all of this.

Just to remind the OP of her own words at the start of this thread and my only question is why did you feel the need to post this comment on a website if you are so sure of your man?
 

Musicqueen

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as for why i dont stay at his apartment...... his mother lives at the apartment as he lives on the resort. I am going to the apartment to meet her but we will not stay there as i find it to be disrespectful for be sleeping together under the same roof as his mother as she has traditions and vallues on sleeping together when you are not married. I would not disrespect her in this way,,,,,,and he wouldnt either....we aer planning on staying at a hotel in puerto plata, not necessarilhy a resort.

OMG......THIS HAS GOT TO BE THE FUNNIEST THING ON THIS WHOLE THREAD!!!!!!!!!! :laugh::laugh::laugh:

Shad...right on!!!!!! :laugh::laugh::laugh:
 

AnnaC

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Just to remind the OP of her own words at the start of this thread and my only question is why did you feel the need to post this comment on a website if you are so sure of your man?

People normally lash out when they are not told what they really want to hear. Instead of saying thank you all, I will keep all you have said in mind because you've all been there and know more than I do it's more fun to lash out and argue with people. ;)

I said it way back in this thread last night that we don't know this guy but we see her reactions and it's just too scary because we've seen it too many times before. It's not thinking rationally so why bother asking for help.

And more importantly why are we trying so hard to save her? ;)
 

Musicqueen

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Anna....you're right...but like a very wise and wonderful woman told me once...it's hard when you see a train wreck about to happen and you can't do anything to stop it... ;)
 

AnnaC

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Anna....you're right...but like a very wise and wonderful woman told me once...it's hard when you see a train wreck about to happen and you can't do anything to stop it... ;)

That person's name wouldn't happen to start with an A would it? ;)

If it does thank you .
 
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Diavola84

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I actually did the same thing...I just met him however. I just came back 2 weeks ago and I can't stop thinking about him. Reading all these forums though, I start to be hesitant with their intentions...and it makes sense! I'd read all the forums on sankies before getting in any deeper.

It might help or hurt you but its always better to get over the little things in life rather than the large things.
 

sjh

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What honeybunch and countless others fail to see:

These men are VERY VERY good at what they do.
They have had lots of practice and know all the lines, mistakes and tricks.
They do this every week.
They, the rest of the staff, and the family are all in on the big joke.

Imagine how good you would be at seduction if you practiced it on a new person each and every week? These guys are hired to entertain you and they do just that and more.
 

caro

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as for why i dont stay at his apartment...... his mother lives at the apartment as he lives on the resort. I am going to the apartment to meet her but we will not stay there as i find it to be disrespectful for be sleeping together under the same roof as his mother as she has traditions and vallues on sleeping together when you are not married. I would not disrespect her in this way,,,,,,and he wouldnt either....we aer planning on staying at a hotel in puerto plata, not necessarilhy a resort.

ok because you think you don t disrespect her value and tradition when you sleep with him at the hotel . do you think she don know what you do ?

in my book for respect her you will need to be slepping alone at night.

and who told you that his mother or him?
 

Charlielyn

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She is paying for them to stay at a hotel in PP because the apartment that she says he owns is filled with other people while he lives in a resort. What resort does he live in??? The resorts in the PP area do not have live in workers , except for maybe the RIU hotel.

No resort worker can afford his own apartment. He is probably giving his pay to his mother for the family apartment.. Love to know where the 2 of you plan on spending your week together. Also why you are paying for him to have a holiday, food in restaurants, nights drinking on the town, taxis, etc. Maybe a few nights at the Casino gambling e=with your money.

Remember - he will say to you that he will pay you back, but this will never happen. He has no money and any that he gets he will give to his mother. Or the wife that you don't know about yet.

Please listen to us. We know what we are talking about. I have 12 years experience here and others have even more experience.

One or two successful stories of a long time ago, quite often aren't successful stories after a few years. **** happens even in what seems to be a terrific relationship.
 

Audra

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She is paying for them to stay at a hotel in PP because the apartment that she says he owns is filled with other people while he lives in a resort. What resort does he live in??? The resorts in the PP area do not have live in workers , except for maybe the RIU hotel.

No resort worker can afford his own apartment. He is probably giving his pay to his mother for the family apartment.. Love to know where the 2 of you plan on spending your week together. Also why you are paying for him to have a holiday, food in restaurants, nights drinking on the town, taxis, etc. Maybe a few nights at the Casino gambling e=with your money.

Remember - he will say to you that he will pay you back, but this will never happen. He has no money and any that he gets he will give to his mother. Or the wife that you don't know about yet.

Please listen to us. We know what we are talking about. I have 12 years experience here and others have even more experience.

One or two successful stories of a long time ago, quite often aren't successful stories after a few years. **** happens even in what seems to be a terrific relationship.

All AI resorts have their animation staff live in the resort, they have buidlings off to the side,not with the tourists.

by the way what happened to Avrora, the one who said she would never fall for a sankies lines?

where is m'frog?
 

Janin

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.... i find it to be disrespectful for be sleeping together under the same roof as his mother as she has traditions and vallues on sleeping together when you are not married.

I am not going to tell you what your 'suegra' thinks about you (and she won't either).
But rest assured, that whatever will happen to you in this 'awesome relationship', David's mother, his friends and the whole barrio will find 'merecido'.
Your mistakes define your reputation.

Janin
 

drloca

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All AI resorts have their animation staff live in the resort, they have buidlings off to the side,not with the tourists.

by the way what happened to Avrora, the one who said she would never fall for a sankies lines?

where is m'frog?

Yes dear, all the resorets do EXCEPT in PP...ALL staff live off the resorts, including the "animadors famoso";)
 

Janin

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..."Don't you sleep with that man!"....

Well Tim, this case is a bit different.
Macho David can have all the fun in the world, his mother would not care sooo much.

Once David brings a 'gringa catch' home everybody (except her) sees it as a 'milking cow' introduction.
Gringas normally like to visit their 'novio's family' and mistake it for a special act.
The latter it is, indeed, the whole family is on the stage, ready to play and fake whatever is needed to fool the victim.

Janin
 

honeybunch

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he doesnt work on a resort in pp,,,,,, he works ;on a resort in punta cana......and yes he lives on this resort!!!!!!! as for his mother,,,,,she doesnt know about anything......i asked if while we were in pp if we could see his family since he hasnt seen tem for a while. she doesnt know we will be staying together in a hotel,,,,,she knows n othing of it. im just staing why we wont stay at the apartment,,,,,out of respect......as far as she knows we are coming for the day! he never asked me to meet his family!
 

AnnaC

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I think it's time to let this one go since honeybunch has a new thread on the go.

She been given more than enough good advice and info.

Good luck
 
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